my friend and i are kinda fighting like idk what I did wrong I asked him about it but he is not ready to respond or do anything if I'm texting him he's replying but if I'm not then there is no text from his side I really don't know what to do. should I try talking to him again or don't do anything??


I did :( it's been 3-4 days. He's my best friend it's just eating me inside about what happened to him. 

There must be something...like how much you used to talk to each other..maybe u can figure out the base of this by going through what else he/she opened up to u.. that's one possible source of answer..

He saw the red flags 🚩. For solution meet him in green panties. 😭😂

3am Thoughts

I am so splenetic, i didn't know. I love him but i said such things to him that even those words stinging me. I never imagined that I would ever say such things to him. We were in long distance relationship. He disabled his every social media accounts after that. Idk I don't have the guts to sms him. I emailed him but he didn't reply. Idk what should I do. I am regretting a lot now... But he used to say such mean things and abused me & my family sometimes. I tolerated for few but when he started doing that often, i stopped talking to him. But then he said that he would never do that again but he did that again. & This time I insulted in such a way that even I feel suicidal. No, I never used bad words for him but I said mean and rude things. I was confused whether he really love me or not sometime bcoz he sometime makes me feel unwanted and insecure. But I love him that doesn't mean i'd tolerate him treating like shit and let it go. I just want to talk to him even if it is last time. just want to clear things. idk how can i cajole him... 

Long Distance Relationship

My ex wants to be my friend...but i still have feelings for him!!! Can we be friends?

I was young, his mom didn’t like me. She said I wasn’t good for him. I was 15 when I fell in love with him. He was an adopted kid. I am now almost 20. I met him my freshman year. I let him hurt me. We hid our relationship. I can’t forget him. Last year of senior year he chose someone else over me. It broke me. I told him that if he chose her we could still be friends. I lied. He actually chose her we were 18. Why did I have to pretend like I didn’t know him In school so his mom wouldn’t find out we were a thing. I always wanted to hold his hand through the hallways, and eat lunch together, see his pretty face. I saw him hold hands with her, I saw him wait in lunch with her. He went to prom with her. I saw him give her everything effortlessly. I became depressed. I wanted to commit suicide junior year. I started to date guys because I wanted to forget them. It didn’t work. I just hurt them. I hate myself for hurting other guys. I didn’t do it on purpose I thought I liked them, but after a while I realized that I just wanted to get over him. The worst thing isn’t how badly he hurt me, but how I hurt others who actually liked me and treated me right. I think about it, and I hate it. I can’t do anything about it. I have a boyfriend now. We have been together for 8 months. I’m a sophomore in college now. My Boyfriend is the sweetest and the best, but why do I still feel like I miss the person who hurt me the most. When I see him around I feel weird. 4 months into my relationship he msged me. I was in Seattle, he didn’t know I was in a relationship. He told me he was sorry, and that he messed up. That he realized that I was the one for him. It was to late. I waited for that msg so long. He would write songs for the girl he took to prom. I would listen to them and cry. I wished that he would write one about me. I can’t sum everything up because it’s an endless story. He is my sisters neighbor. I can’t fully let him go, I’m trying I have a boyfriend now. 


Breakup

Yrrrr i m feeling so bad.. i just don't want to do that don't want to go in this anxiety phase.. please help me😢😢
 i had met a guy through matrimonial site and fall for him in just a single conversation. Let's call him T. Because of some reason my parents decline for the marriage proposal but the T was really sweet. He was ready to do everything to be with me. I fought alot with my family, not getting married with him was my biggest Helplessness. While fighting for him i goan through a biggest anxiety phase. I was never able to let him go and he was also trying so hard. In such short span of time we were so close to each other emotionally. After some time because of lot of emotional pressure from family i stopped talking with T and said him to forget me. After some days i met a guy through family and they fixed my marriage, let him call S. Some how i prepare myself to be with S. He was not the person i want but i did so much emotional investment in him and tried to be his to be wife whole heartedly.but in a meanwhile in my heart T was the best person. But i manage to convince myself for S. But he was not the right person so he broke the fixed marriage on a silly fight. This thing brok me fully. 
Now everything thing is just going really well. I met a guy, let call him AA, i got engaged. Such a wonderful man he is fully mature, emotionally stable, hardworking, loving neture, giving me full freedom and everything. I am very happy with him. I was not ready emotionally for this and feeling that i m not able to give him all love and attention he deserve , which i had given to the previous guys. But slowly i was pushing myself towards him as he is such a sweetheart. 
But yesterday i saw something because of that i m feeling very very bad.
On a instgram i saw T is getting married, whatever the things he was saying for me he is saying for that girl. he got married with the girl yesterday night. 
I know feeling bad is wrong, T is happy and i should be happy seeing him happy. But why is this happening with me. What about AA, yrrrr i can't do this with him. I m the kind of loyal person who don't even want any other guy interruption even in my thoughts when i m with someone. But even trying so hard to not think i m thinking about T and like i could be at the place of that other girl. 
What to do?
Please help.
I m getting back in my baddest anxiety phase

Relationships

So there is this boy who I like n he likes me back....but the thing is he had proposed me 1 yr back n I rejected becoz I wanted to heal up ..After I rejected some months later he started dating some1 else..but now I have started to have feelings for him. ....is it ryt wat m doing ...I can't control my feelings ...m I bring the 3rd person between them ?

Overthinking

Iam feeling down. I can't stop myself calling my x. He doesn't like me to call him.. but can't control mind..  I can't do my work. Nothing seems okay.. I just want to get out of this hell.. I miss him badly.

My breakup time..random girls sending my boyfriend  friend requests and he is adding and he sees no harm..I don't know and understand how people add unknown people on Facebook as friend who they never talked never met and my boyfriend is doing this evening in committed relationship .. anyways..it hurts ..but I have to stand for myself..plz drop some love and strength I need this..6 years of relationship it is/was

Love

Before 10 months I experienced the most terrible breakup of my life,he was a spinless man... could never take stand neither for himself nor for me...he never ever contacted me again. I tried for 6 months to fix things then I also gave up unwillingly.
 I am still stuck there mentally...I keep fantasizing, daydreaming about him,recalls all the wonderful and terrible things that happened,what could I have done differently...I have tried each and everything...gym, routine change, social media declutter, sharing it with my friends and I still cry myself to sleep. I have a super busy life but for now it's all online. Please help me!!!

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