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My father recently married this woman whom he knows only since 3 months. I lost my mother 10 years back and I have seen my father be lonely and I know he deserves someone who can love him like my mother did. But I don’t know this woman enough. I don’t know her at all. I am really insecure about my father. And I cannot even discuss this with him because i know he is in love and he will not understand my point of view.

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Give her a chance! Try to know her better. Everyone deserves a benefit of doubt :)

Avni @avni

I think you are okay to feel a bit insecure about this new addition in your family. It is normal and completely valid. However, you have to understand that it is your fathers choice. He is an adult, very much conscious of the choices he is making. I suggest if your stepparent makes your father happy, try and be happy for him as well. Try not to compare your step mother to your mother and allow your father to enjoy this new phase he is in. Give your step mother a chance and maybe your insecurity regarding her will abate. If not, you can simply distance yourself if you do not feel comfortable. Talk to your dad about this after you have done the above things. I do not have a stepparent and so i cannot help more than this but from a neutral perspective, this seems to be the right thing to do.

Sejal Sharma @sejalsharma

If its possible start bonding with her. Share your insecurities and have a good chat with her. Its absolutely okay to feel this way because you care about your father.


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