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Naseeha Jamal @haseena

My father is showing violence behaiviores in the house. Getting up in the morning to have a fight with mom and then kicking her infront of my siblings. What should i do? It is a trauma for me when my father beats up my mother… He is the eldest in the family so nobody above him…its been days since he have started targetting me because i say what i feel when i feel but no violence towards me .just passive aggressive
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I grew up in a house hold like that and honestly it never got better. Until your mom is ready to leave him nothing will change just DCF will get involved. Your mother needs to break the cycle none of this should be on you whatever you decide to do just know your mom is clearly brainwashed and this whole situation might backfire on you. Even if they arrest your dad I am sure he will be back. Tell your mom how you feel that should wake her up.

Naseeha Jamal @haseena

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Divorce is out of the picture for her … She claims that she is staying in this relationship because of my 2 younger siblings.

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It never gets better. I am in my 30s and my parents are still together. Sometimes I see bruises on my mom she says she feel but that’s what she would tell everyone when we were younger and call us liars because we would tell people the truth until my dad started abusing us. The abuse cycle is terrible.

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Shivay @shivay2595

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I’m. So sorry that you have to go through all.
But you have to talk to your mom and make her understand that all what’s happening is not right and that she doesn’t deserves to be treated like that. Have a hearty talk with your mom and try to find out why she’s tolerating such a man and never standing up for herself. Because this cycle of abuse and violence is very infectious. As it will always hamper your decisions when it will come to your marriage and also your siblings will be traumatized for their whole life and they’ll also have trust issues.
So please talk to your mom and try to make her and your dad separate. Because seen very closely what happens to this kind of abusive marriages and their children.
Keep on hanging tight like this and never loose hope.
And always remember you are never alone.
We all are here with you. Always πŸ«‚

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