my family they always compare me to my bestfriend and I'm so tired hearing their words.

Modern problems require modern solutions 😂😄

Then start comparing your parents to your bestfriend's parents 🙂

Depression

Family in  four words
**Spectacles of varied power**
They let you see the perspective you missed and the ones you overlooked. :)

Family

Literally cant talk with relatives openly, they still think that im innocent and dont talk with people, tho i was like this  before but not now anymore.
And its just with relatives i cant talk openly ,it only associated with small talks.

I will never let anyone ever say something bad about my family. My family and their well being comes first for me over anything else. 

Relationships

i am here with my whole family for holidays. I feel so left out. I am not enjoying at all, firstly I have boards so i have to study while everyone's enjoying. Secondly, it's like everything i am doing they are mocking me, i already fucking hate myself and this is making me hate myself more. I am fed up, i fucking wanna d!3. Also, when I was younger all my cousins used to tease me, now that i'm bit older, we have 11 year old cousin everyone's loving him. I am so jealous of him and i feel disgusted because i am thinking of all these things. I hate myself so much. I don't want their attention but idk it feels so lonely even though there are more than 20 people around me. I wanna d!3. Everything i'm doing they are just idk it's me or what but i feel like they are mocking me. I FUCKING HATE ME.

Hate hate hate having relatives over at my house. Just hate it absolutely 

Anxiety

I fcking hate my family so much. It’s always my elder sister first for things. And I am just like some utility who you can use for bill payments etc. 
i wish I had a more loving family

3am Thoughts

How to deal with anger from irritating relatives . I just spoke back to an annoying relative who started commenting on my hair and asking me to shave my head. I told her that it would be better if she does it 

Anger Issues

Dysfunctionality in families is more common than we think. And frivolous yet powerful matters like finances can really trigger our inherent beliefs about money, which often spirals down and gets personally transmuted through verbal jabs and attacks. If this is a temporary thing, then it will get better as your finances get better. But if this verbal projection of stinging words is a normal thing, and i am taking my own familial scenario as an example, then this is a form of verbal abuse and it doesnt take a lot of deciphering to figure out if it is or isnt. If it is, please try and become financially independent if you are capable, and refrain form engaging in family drama. A lot of us, and i mean  a lot of us, do not know how to implement and maintain healthy boundaries and this really shows in our denial and push and pull mechanisms of attachments. I can only say, work on yourself first. Even if you want to help your family, you cant if you are no better than them. You cannot pour from an empty cup. 

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