My ex left me for someone else few years ago, never could move on from that. Recently found out she's going through depression and she's on pills. Couldn't stop myself and reached out to her to help and talk to her. I know this will again end up with me getting hurt. 
But when we ended things years ago, I let her go only because I thought she's happier without me and with the other person. And seeing her "not happy" is something I can't really deal with.

FML

Compassion

Am I selfish for not wanting my girlfriend to kill herself? I know it hurts her to be here, and I know she wants more than anything to be gone, but isn’t it normal for me to want to make her stay with me? I don’t know what to do. I am conflicted and afraid of losing her. But whatever I feel, I know she feels 100x worse. I don’t mean to put this on whoever may see it, but I lost all my close friends and now I have no one to turn to. I’m sorry.

Suicidal Ideation

My wife sometimes gets very aggressive with me. Once she drew blood by hitting me so hard. She hasn't hit me like that in a long time, but she does sometimes get a little too rough and when I tell her to quit, she says I'm being a pussy, or that I'm a man, suck it up, etc. I hate it. 
I feel like she broke something in me, and I don't love her the same way that I used to. We have children and I stay for them mostly, but I thought after getting over all of this and years of working on things, I would feel differently... but I lost something in those experiences. 

Depression

Hi!

I unexpectedly fell in love with someone who is in love with someone else, her boyfriend. She told me she loves me too but she can't break up with him yet due to his feeling of depression. I felt her love for him is still genuine. I am getting exhausted of waiting and being afraid of being the one left out everytime. It has been months but still I love her. Has anyone experienced this before and what did you do? I would listen to all comments, suggestions even judgements (but please be gentle). Thank you

Love

Hey guys ☺️,
Good evening.
I've a friend who's a girl 😅. 
She has a boyfriend . they don't understand each other and fight in every 2-3 days .
Then she ask me for advice that should she  break up with him ?
Sometimes I advise her to do so.
And the next day everything gets normal.

And this haunts me this makes me the villain.

Frustration

I am not letting go of this 1 person. Me and my ex broked up a month ago and i am like please stay with me dont leave me and all. She is still there but talks casually she is clear that we are not going to be together. How to move on what should i do.

Why is it that you love someone who said she loves you too but still hurted you so so much and also claims to love you! I dated one girl twice like for 1st time she hurted me and was not in love and left me. Second time after years i thought now she loves me but after sometime again the same things leaving me for other friends and everyone. And still claimed that she loves me. Why?
After sometime it seemed like she enjoying and intentionally doing things to hurt me. The thing that kept me was that she too cried on call that made me feel as if she loves me. But still. 
One day after fight it seemed she's just fine. Not by seeing. But because i saw her laughing with friends so loud and that too everyday after every fight. It was so genuine laugh as if i didn't matter. And after confronting i only got the answer that i hide my emotions. 
I just wanna know why people who hurt you are soooo fuckin happy than youu who deserves better than them. You know you deserve better but still you're not hapoy or anything but to see the one who claimed to love you for like 2 years but still acts and do things that quite obvious says that she never cared although you know she never did. But still you're fucked up. Nobody after hours or one day go with friends and laugh so hard even if the person that is me in this situation is in front of her. How can someone be like this bullshit. Please give me some things i want to know why she's so happy as if nothing happened and i am numb. Just don't say try ti do things to make you happy and other obvious things plzzzz.

Relationships

Hi,

I'm about to turn 27 in precisely 6 days. My girlfriend of 6 months ghosted me about a month ago. I tried staying calm and tried to understand may be this has to do something with the lockdown and everyone's stressed but she doesn't want to talk to me or discuss literally anything.

Everytime I call or text that would make her upset and she would say.. 'it was all fine until I got your text now'. This would kill me.

Honestly, I was down for a month as hell overthinking every possible fixation to this problem that I have because we really had a nice time on a trip just before the lockdown started and we couldn't see eachother after that.

She used to be a very courageous and sensible woman and now I feel like I don't even know her.

We haven't spoken to eachother since a week now.. I don't know how am I leading my life with this. 

The thing is I miss her so much also I feel like I've lost her already.

These thoughts about her is painfully terrible.

What do I do?

Someone please help me 😭 recently I broke up with my girlfriend and she is the one who broke up with me. Actually her family came to know about our relation her family did not beat or threaten her but  her mother told to promise her that she won't do anything bad and she will focus in study . Really 🥲 for one promise she forgot our 2 years relationship . Does she even care for my feelings I loved her so much . And still now I kept begging her to stay with me i can't move on its very hard 😭 . I m not that kind of guy who keeps relation just for show off . When I am in relation with a girl she becomes a part of my life I can share everything with her those i can't share with my family members or friends she just mean a lot to me. She says that she will come after sometime with me . Seriously am i just a toy whenever she wants to be in relation she will and whenever she don't want she will just breakup. Now I know she doesn't care about my feelings but I want to be with her i am begging for her love 😭😭😭😭i can't just forget 
Please help me 🙏🙏🙏
I just want a person with whom I can share my feeling 💔💔💔💔😭😭🙏🙏

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