My ex has been trying to destroy my life for so long. I donβt know who to trust anymore I constantly feel like someone is going to shoot me. We live in an evil world where people who donβt like you unite even if they donβt even like each other just to destroy you.
yush @aoooosh
So true
+1
Stay safe. Inform authority if you can. Be in a safe place with people you can trust.
I have tried to call authorities. I have tried to get restraining orders Noone believes me. This guy is such a narcissist and all of his friends are like Profesional criminals. They all have great jobs but in reality they all sell drugs.
Fuck dude. You need to move out of this area. Change your numbers etc. You need to really get away if itβs that unsafe. For what youβre telling me i think you just changing your location and number and passwords will the first thing to do. Talk to a therapist, trauma informed therapist, you need to find a social group therapy sorta thing so you can share this with someone. Take care of yourself and stay very safe. Talk to your family and friends whoever you can trust. This is an emergency, look for resources that can help you with this. Ask now& me theyβll have something
I can completely understand. Iβve been working on some of my own stuff. You can watch doctor Raminiβs videos on YouTube. She gives therapy, might have resources and is an expert in narcisisim and has treated victims of ncabuse. You should surely check out her channel will be very helpful. Thatβs all i know for now, you should take some therapy for sure. A therapist might be able to navigate you a lot better
I tried I drove to Florida and had to return because he took me to court for custody after the first restraining order was denied. The second order was denied because they said it was a custody thing they didnβt believe me I broke up with him almost 3 years ago we have a daughter and heβs been making my life heβll he works for the post office. I have tried therapy but everything I go and wait since they are walk ins for assessment I start panicking and leave. I came from domestic violence so to me it was no big deal I know that sounds stupid but over time I couldnβt take it anymore. Idk I just feel stressed. I have such a messy life. Thank you
Thank you
Idk about us law, Iβm from India. But please take care of yourself and your kid. You can go to reddit there are many people that might be able to help you. AITA, askwomen, niceguys, neckbeardguys, offmychest i mean Iβve joined two days ago so idk many pages, Iβll just tell you a few ive seen active and okay. I hope you can get help, please search the web for the laws in you state and how you can hire a decent (who gets your case) lawyer who can help you get some security and you can tell them that youβll tell them about the βjobsβ he & his friends have. I think that will make it more pressing for them because i think that works idk Iβve heard. Idk really you decide whatever works for you. Forget the people who donβt believe you, if youβre honest and if you can get the right help they will have to do something about it. But donβt forget you need to first protect yourself and find a safe place for you and your child. Stay safe i hope you get justice. I hope you can reach safety very very soon. Sending Hugs and peace.
Thank you very much