My ex boyfriend is in another country which is actually why we broke up and he's working really hard and hardly has time for anything. His memories still are a part of me and I don't know how to get over him. He's working hard and I'm super happy for him. 

acceptance is the key.
try to accept whatever has happened and maybe don't think about things which you don't see happening in real anytime soon:)

Relationships

So I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years now. at the beginning of the year my boyfriend had to leave for work for 6 months and while he was gone I met a guy and we totally hit it off and became really really good friends. Somewhere in those 6 months my bf and I took a break and me and the other guy started hanging out more and well one thing lead to another. So after the 6 months my bf comes back and we decided to work on things and we've been trying but I can't seem to leave the other guy. I like both of them soo much and I dont want to lose either of them and I know I'm being selfish and a terrible person but I just I love my boyfriend and I care so much about the other guy and ive tried to stop talking to the other guy bu it never goes through buy u I can't break up with my bf

Confusion

Confused;
I am a 27 year old girl, I have a friend who I know from past several years but due to some reasons we were not in contact for very long, but 4 months ago he texted me and we connected again. He is going through a break-up, and has no job in this pandemic. As a friend I am there for him to listen to him, support him when needed, we had a liking for each other but due to some circumstances in the past we didn't move further with it. He asked me to give it a try this time, we dated for 2 weeks but then he said he doesn't think he can put in any efforts to take the relationship forward. We ended the dating and became friends again, I was ok for sometime, he is very clear on his thoughts but it is draining me to think I am unworthy of someone's efforts. And should I even be friends with him? because I feel at times he ghosts me when he doesn't need emotional support. It is very confusing and I don't know how to move ahead.

Frustration

He blocked me everywhere (I tried to talk to him on 3 sites) but I just wanted to confess my feelings for him ; I wanted to tell him that I will accept his answer whatever it be , atleast I will not have a  burden of hidden feelings

Crush

A few years back I had a crush on a guy, I confessed to him but he said no in a very nice and polite way. 
It took me 1-2 years to move on from him. 
A few months back a guy proposed to me and I liked him too so I said yes.. and just after that my crush came again in my life, he started flirting and trying to talk more, I told him I'm seeing a guy and I love him. 
He said, sorry I didn't respond well when you confessed your feelings, I missed the best girl in my life. 
Now me and my boyfriend break up mutually because he said there will be problems in future and parents wouldn't agree. 
My crush is still trying to talk to me as much as possible and kind of flirting..
And my heart is aching because of break-up, I still love my boyfriend.


3am Thoughts

i don't think my friend likes me anymore. it's terrible of me to think this way but he's recently gained like 4 friends and he doesn't seem to care when i talk anymore. here's whats happened this past week:

i was feeling like garbage this past week so i let all my friends know i was gonna isolate for a while. they were all understanding 

today i decided to message one friend, him, that i was doing better. he gave a pretty sincere response and was very nice:)

but then i was actually talking about what ive been up to and like everytime hed just 
take so long to look at my messages 
and gave dryish responses

gosh why am i making this im probbaly overthinking 
and hes such a good friend but im so worried because 
so many of my friends have left me 

Friends

Hello everyone, I had a breakup 2 yrs back, my ex kind of cheated on me. But then we started talking a year back and he made me realise he has changed, we talked day and night and about everything. He told me he still has feelings for me and like a fool I gradually developed feeling for him again and now I feel like he is lying to me again, although we are not in a relationship but still it feels like cheating. He is avoidant and avoids having conversations when he knows he's hurting me. I confronted him and he isn't responding back. What should I do, it will hurt like hell leaving him again  but he is still not serious about me and it sucks

Anxiety

I need advice!! I went through my boyfriend's phone because I felt as if he was distancing himself. I noticed he had been talking to his ex. However, I do not know what to make of it. He was calling her "my love" and even told her he loved her. HOWEVER, they don't talk every day. he was talking to her about me and she even sent pics of her and her boyfriend. Idk what to think...please help...

Also, her bf obviously found something wrong with their conversations. He made her stop talking to my bf. but my bf told her that she wasn't going anywhere no matter what.

Boyfriend

Why??
I met a guy in aug 2018 and got married in november 
We dated fr 2 months and we did our roka and all.
This guy he used to be so supportive and used to motivates me in life for my career and my desires....i was happy because these are qualities a partner should have.....to love each other ..understand eachother ...support eachother and respect their choices.
..i was getting everything from him before marriage ..infact he was the one who proposed me for marriage and i wasnt ready so early as i wanted to make my career and support my mom as she is single parent ...he told me u can do it post marriage also ....that he and i will make our careers post marriage and live amazing life.
After 3th or 4th day of marriage he said he is nt comfortable with me working outside...
All i had to do is cooking and bed pleasures...my life ended....i couldnt go down alone fr a walk also...even if i am.talking on phone to anyone ...he will b there and nt leave me alone...his mother told me once her one of the oldest pandit said ...i should stay away from my mother because my mother will ruin my life and eat my happiness...
I gave up everything...my career, my family ,my friends, my lifestyle , my happiness, still my husband use to fight and use to call me emotionless ,cold hearted , and he will go for sanyas and all.
And noone cared that everyday i was crying and dieing iniside .
Why in this generation also people think girls are only fr cooking and bed pleasures
Why they cant make careers and love her parents post marriage
Why she cant visit her paternal families 
Why she always have to wait fr permission???


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