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my ex added me on social media and i accepted the request but he hasnโ€™t texted or anything should I ask him why he added me? Or leave it?

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Anonymous
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Leave it that will be queen move

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Anonymous
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Better not to ask. Now that they are your ex, theyโ€™ll think you still care about them and all if you ask them.

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Nyx @lost_not_found

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Shouldnt have ideally accept the reqโ€ฆ but dont ask

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Anonymous
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Actually its fine! U accepting the req seems like u have moved on n does care about it anynore! So dont text him until he msgs u!

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Anonymous
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Doesnt*

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Anonymous
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Leave itโ€ฆ He is just checking if u still need him or not!

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He might be baiting you. So you start talking to him and leaving you feeling confused.
Maybe you should just unfriend and block him itโ€™ll be good for your mental health and he is an ex right? You have the right to move on and not play these games. If a person canโ€™t be clear, itโ€™s not your job to assume, guess their intentions or teach them to be clear. If they canโ€™t, their loss then. Itโ€™s not your loss my friend. Believe me, Iโ€™ve spent 13 years of my life doing this for people out of the good of my heart, wait on them, go out of my way even when Iโ€™m getting nothing, kept watering dead relationships and people who only wanted to play and think life is a game and nothing more or theyโ€™ll have some other excuse or reason. So donโ€™t do this to yourself please, donโ€™t be like me. Donโ€™t be your own demise, donโ€™t let them do this to you , get them out of your head.
Give yourself more love than you gave them, respect yourself more than them, please and respect your feelings and shut this shit out. I know itโ€™s easier said than done, but there is no reason to take anyoneโ€™s mixed signals or be in your head about them please, donโ€™t expend so much of your space in your brain for such a human

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Anonymous
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Block himโ€ฆfocus on your mental health

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