My dad works in other cities and only comes back for like weekends. When he’s here he’s drunk. When he can’t drink, like this weekend cause he was on some pills he’s just grumpy. He doesn’t act like a dad. I’m pretty sure he doesn’t care about me at all. When he’s away he only texts and talks with my mom. He doesn’t care about me. That hurts. What did I do wrong? Am I not enough?
There is nothing wrong with you
Love yourself
Easier to say than to do. Especially when u start to think that u can’t do anything right and ur a complete mess 24/7.
Try thinking of him as sick man incapable of love
You aren’t supposed to be enough for your parents. It’s their job to be there for you. They should be taking care for you and not the other way around. So him not being there for you doesn’t mean that you ain’t enough. And sometimes parents are like that. We can’t really do anything to change them. That doesn’t mean it’s your fault <3
