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@rishiv37

My career and job is not going good. I got terminated twice within a year. This is quite depressing for me at the same time I am not able to figure out what I really want to peruse as a career. I graduated with computer science and work as a web developer. Every time somehow I manage to get the job, get through the interview but can’t run well with the work. Being it the only source of earning for me I can not leave it immediately and look forward to exploring other things and even if I want to explore I’m confused.

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Anonymous
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Do that work which you enjoy. Start enjoying your work. Don’t see that it is your company work see that as it is your work. You are doing that for your own. Start finding your interest. And I know you will do great in your life. You just need sometime to understand things and you will. And whenever you feel low you can talk to me I am always here.
Best of luck 😊

@shikara
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But how to find our interests, likes and dislikes?

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Anonymous
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Yo can find this
What you enjoy to do

@shikara
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Not sure in what work I enjoy.

@rishiv37
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Thankyou!
After a very long time heard this β€œAnd I know you will do great in your life” and felt good.

Yes I did try to relate that way, seeing the work as my own work instead of seeing as company work but this lasts only for a couple of days and then it goes away and work feels like β€œI have to” instead of β€œI want to”.
Don’t know why but for me it’s tough to connect with that feel.

The blunder starts happening in my mind and I start loosing balance when I lose the freedom of choosing what I want to work on and what not. Little bit weird but happens with me.

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Anonymous
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Let’s talk in brief
You can send me message on insta or we can talk here only.
Insta id - healing_291

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Simran @st1199

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Hello!
You made a career in the field you are good at or liked it and the same goes for the Job?
Yes, it makes sense to not leave till the time you have an offer letter from somewhere you would be happy to be at and work. Also, what makes you enjoy or what do you like doing in your free time?

@rishiv37
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Hello!
I actually not sure with here. At times(when I’m able to perform well) I feel I like what I’m doing and the job but on the other hand at times(when the performance and productivity is low).

The situation is I have already left from the last one(been 20 days) and looking for the new opportunities but I’m getting confused about the same, whether I want to go passionately with the next job in the same field? What if everything start repeating the same way as happened in the previous job(coz uncertain challenges will be everywhere).
I’m getting an offer in the same field with the same payout as last one but I don’t know why, I do not feel wholeheartedly. I find it necessary for the sake of avoiding career gaps, fulfilling financial needs.

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Simran @st1199

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There will be such uncertainties every time you go for something new. But, that doesn’t mean you won’t try to hold onto one thing.

After a point, for me at last it gets important to figure out what you want and would you carry or change everything. I am assuming you haven’t reached that stage.

Then maybe do some internships simultaneously in different fields and see what interests you more and go for that job and stick with it.

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