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Anonymous

My breakup was almost half a year ago. We both are not in contact since then. It was a long distance relationship but the bond we shared was great. I just cannot stop loving him even after the breakup. Is there anyway of knowing if he still loves me… Without asking it directly. Any sign guys, any dream? Anything?

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Anonymous

Hey! As ironic as it sounds, I have been through the exact same thing, hence I completelyy understand your feelings. I have spent most of my nights in this curiosity of how he is doing, is he okay, has he moved on? Infact I even started having dreams about him, and all I craved for was to hear his voice one more time. So let me tell you, the easiest way to find how he is doing is by asking him yourself! But as I don’t the situation and the reason for the breakup, I would suggest you first contemplate if you should contact him again or is it for the best that you both maintain zero contact. Nevertheless, I wanna tell you what you are feeling is very normal, and even though this feels like the end of the world right now, you will be just fine love. You are not alone. Waiting for your reply!! <3

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Anonymous

I also have dreamed about him. Did you contact him after that? What was his response?

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Anonymous

Well to be honest, I did end up drunk dialing him once. We talked for two hours and then since we both hadn’t moved on, we even tried making it work, but failed miserably. So calling him only made me realise how it was for the best that we broke up :p
What is your situation? Like why did you guys breakup? How long were you together?

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Anonymous

He broke up with me, I didn’t want it saying we are not each others type

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Anonymous

Darling then why would you wanna be with someone who doesn’t want you back? You deserve to be with someone who loves you no matter what and chooses you over everyone at all times! Am I right?

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Anonymous

There is still grief involved in letting a toxic person go…

@mysticwarrior

I can only say it gets easier
and it’s for the best to not have your hopes up
even if you get back together this breakup will be like a crack in your relationship.
which is not going anywhere and someday this might create a huge fight.

@yatin09

I am on the same road my friend. it’s been more than a year we since we broke up and he’s in another relationship. i know he can never be mine but my heart does not stop loving him. all i have understood in this phase is that we should never force anything. loving someone or unloving them, neither of them should be forced. nothing is permanent and this too shall pass. and yes, if you want a sign then the best thing would be to call him. call him and you will know if there’s something left between you two.

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Anonymous

Thankss love. I just cannot call him or anything, he pushed me away really bad last time.

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Anonymous

Hii,
My story is same
But I’m the guy and I’m dealing with the same problems
I’m not able to forget her
We were very happy together although it was a long distance
But we ended up arguing and fighting everyday
Now i can’t spend my days without thinking about her
I miss her everyday
She comes in my dreams every night
I want her to come back but don’t know if she wants the same or not
I’m an introvert i think like 100 times before saying or doing anything
But if u want to know
Then you must make a move.

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Anonymous

Hahaha. My friend I also used to dream about him. He pushed me away. I will never be able to contact him by myself now.

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Anonymous

Did he blocked you ?

@muskan12

Live for yourself and not for others. Break ups happen for a reason. If you both are meant to be together, you’ll be together. Don’t force yourself. Let this happen naturally. If he loves you, he’ll come to you. Until then just keep yourself busy in some other things. Live your life. Search for happiness in little things.

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