My boyfriend’s family made him breakup with me because he could not clear his NEET PG since 4 years, they blamed me and made him guilty about his family’s financial condition too. His relatives and family made him believe that he is at fault. His auntie is ready to settle him up in private college by paying 1.6 crores but told him to leave me. He fought with everyone but eventually gave up on me because his family is pressurising him and also took his phone away. We both are 27 year olds. His aunt cussed me in front of him on phone but he did not stand up for me which hurt me a lot. What should I do?
I think its all up to you… If you really believe on him and if you are sure that he comes back for you… you can wait… Give him a chance. If not its better to move on.
You are the one who knows him better than anyone in here.
Let’s talk if you wanna share more
I was the only person in his life who was with him in his difficult times and helped him emotionally financially not thinking about myself even a bit. But I just feel he should stand up for me atleast or become a rebel and go the other way.
Don’t be mad at him i think he will come back for you… He will grab the opportunity he will work hard finds the way if he really want you back
His aunt wants him to run her hospital since she has no one to carry forward her hospital that’s why she has kept this condition because she thinks I will make him run away and he won’t repay his debt. His mother is also influenced by his aunt as she wants his son to settle first. They said If you want marriage then marry him in one week and my family did not have an idea, my brother told them not to create a scene at home still they came to my home unannounced.
If possible can we talk private
I think let him decide… Get a chance to talk with him… Write down all your questions ask with him… Get all answers what u need… Then decide. I think its the only way you could get out of it
focus on career