My boyfriend said that “Agar khana banana pade toh koi bhi shadi hi kyu karta”. I’m familiar with the gender roles in India and ik I cannot change that. Everyone is. Par ye toh muej laga ki vo sirf iske liye shadi kar raha. Maine bola ki isse Acha cook rakhle shadi kyu karni hai…toh usne bola one of the minor reason hai.
I’m upset because ik it’s work and I’ve to do that and I’ll happily but that shouldn’t be the reason to get married…it should be love, sath dena and what not…ye toh esa hua ki usko shadi sirf kaam naa karna pade isliye karni hai…idk if I’m wrong and idk how to explain what I’m thinking.
Usne ye bola toh muje esa laga ki usko sief gharkaam karne shadi karni hai…ye kaam hai zarurat hai karna chahiye sab pata hai par khudko vo chiz naa karni pade isliye shadi karlo…nokrani thodi leke jaa raha hai bhai tu…
Maine kuch galat socha kya?
Ik and muje problem nai hai ye sab karne mai…I’ll all this happily…ofcourse I’ll par koi isi reason se shadi kare kyuki mai ye sab karlu uske liye toh vo bohot zyada galat hai…ye sbka kaam hai vo reason nai hona chahiye
Yeah I do
