my boyfriend is now out of town and i really miss him he is not talking to me in the sense he’s always busy with his family and i totally understand that i dont want creat any sort of problem for him or his family i just want to talk to him but i feel lonely at times also i dont want to sound desperate idk he wants me to deactivate my acc on instagram he doesnt let me post anything without his permission im not saying hes overprotective or toxic but cutting off everyone and focusing on him being loyal to him i did every single thing just to please him and see him happy but now that feel lonely i really dont have anyone to talk with this makes me depressed
No girl…if he doing this… that’s totally toxic… I had done this mistake so i am telling you… How do you know far from your eyes he is with his family and friends only… He surely is controlling your life… Why you can’t post anything on your own social platform… What in the world he can get from that… The thing is…he is reserving you for himself only so that no guy should see you worth and can get a chance to cheering you for real… same mistake i had done and it cost me my mental health with my academic going downhill and also my physical health… Don’t let any men or any one decide what you are worthy of and what you should do with your own personal space … talk to him… If he is not responding you with valid answers of your questions…girl you are in danger… Bt be careful…he might try to emotionally blackmail you that he loves you and doing only this for you … Just remember one thing … First know your worth ❤️
Priyanka @jknm
aye do you know what you are getting yourself into . Please do not this do not cut off being loyal doesn’t mean you will shut down every other person just to be with him . Understandable that if you are committed then some kind of priorities are given to the partner but this is too much … And do not be a people pleaser and kindly do not let anyone encroach your personal space.And never give someone else the right to decide for yourself it just bring the burden to your mental peace that you feel like being pushed to do what you do not intend to .
I am telling you because i have seen my friend being tormented by this like her then boyfriend now ex was like tell me where you are with whom you are tell me which photo are you posting and he used to say i want to keep you for myself. What a pain he was to her but she was blind in love that he is being so protective caring and in was seen as jealous who does not understand love but later after some point she realised she is not being herself she is just his favourite toy with whom he will play when he is free he has time but will not let others even take a glimpse of it . its toxic mindset so please get out of it :)
