My boyfriend is moving away to a Whole new Country and also Another continent . I am Happy for him coz he Is going there for a secure future But Its also killing me . How should i Handle this ? 

Thank You so much I was so upset about It . I'll do my best 

Heyy!!
First of all congratulations to your boyfriend and I wish him all the best!!
Maintaining a long-distance relationship can be tough but it is not impossible, you should remind yourself every now and then that he has gone there to achieve his dreams, to fulfill his goals, and to have a secure future and that you are happy for him. You just need to make some efforts!!!  Try and communicate with him regularly and creatively! 

 
 

Also, it is important that you control your expectations. Make some rules for your expectations. You should understand the fact that he is there to make a career, he cannot be into you 24*7. He has a personal life there and similarly, you have a life here. It is very important for you to make some ground rules for your expectations. 



Long Distance Relationship

How do you pamper your bf over call?

Please help me to move on....it looks like i am never going to forget him😭
Please don't say everything will be alright with time because nothing is happening right. 
He got married to someone else after our 4year of healthy relationship because of his parents pressure. 
We  both loves each other so much but now he says he wants to move on but he was always loyal with me and now he wants to be loyal with his current partner and i also want that he should move on from me but i just can't adjust this thing that he wants to move on from me😭 i want him to love me for his whole life .
I am so confused right now..... i don't know what to do .
Please someone help me 💔

Breakup

Why is he doing this to me? 

i got some replies ty for that i have a bf but i’m not sure if i’m into him at first he was sweet but he shared with me his extremely violent thoughts and scared the sh1t out of me i get paranoid pretty easily and he knew that i told him that i want to break up but he begged me not to and told me that he would never hurt me i font believe him but i’m scared that he would hurt me if i break up with him he knows where i live and i’m worried if i would regret breaking up with him and start liking him and he actually turns out to be a good guy i’m confused i don’t know what to do

Yes I love my best friend there was a tym I really wanted to kiss him but now when things are going in the direction I wanted it doesn't feel good . I love him I care for him I want to be him and I am even ready to spend my lyf with him but as friend I don't feel that this relationship will work in future . I somehow think that there is a Loop hole and we will fall in that . Every thing is gonna end . Today or after 1 year but it will . The impact will be cured in less tym we I say no but it will take tym if I say yes . I want to be with him but as friends . 

Friends

So I met this one guy online about three years ago in a game. At first I didn't think anything special about it and just played the game but then he started talking to me more and more on the console messeges and at night we would talk trought voice chat at night. First it was just normal talk but then he started to make me feel special. At some point he started asking me for pictures of me or wanted to have my number but I was a private person. I never ever gave that to anyone and I also thought I was very ugly. But he kept asking and saying how special I was to him so I ended up sending him a picture after we like talked for 3 months. When he saw my picture he called me very beautifull and made me feel more special. After that we continued to play the game together daily and talk to each other daily. After a while he wanted me to video call, which I said no to at first. But i gave into it eventually ofcourse. I was so so shy At the begining, but he was so sweet and kind to me that I felt at ease after a while. We started video calling every day on WhatsApp. Sharing goodmornings, pictures and goodnights. But at some point I felt insecure cuz we couldn't meet and he kept saying he didn't know if we could meet since it's complicated for him and for me. So after a while I tried to cut ties with him last year cuz I was insecure 

I felt so heartbroken, I cried and I cried. We were still friends in the game so I avoided that for a while. But eventually I couldn't forget him and reached out to him again after a few months. First we started playing in the game and we were eventually talking normaly then we connected again. We started talking daily again and he made me feel special again and made me fall for him all over again. 

But lately he replies later, we don't video call much at all and when we do he's sometimes too tired to talk from work he says or he's not in the mood and I feel like I need to beg to have a video call with him. It makes me feel like a nag
So then I tend to back off a bit and wait for him to send me a messege first.
A few weeks ago I told him I really want to be with him and meet him. He said it was impossible between us cuz of his family and mine. I told him I don't care but it all just made me insecure 

From that point on I just kept feeling more anxies. These past few days even more, which I told him. He told me he really really likes me, that he's not good with talking about feelings, that its complicated to meet and doesn't know if that will ever happen, he thinks he's too old for me and wants me to enjoy life, I told him I don't care about that. 

He also finds it annoying when I say don't leave when he wants to go sleep
Since two days ago I feel so crappy, I cry every morning and night, I try acting normal but I don't know how. 
He knows I have had a hard life and that its not getting any better, that's why i think he only talks to me cuz he feels sorry for me
I dont have friends, I talk and act normal to people at my work, at college etc, but I don't feel connected to any of them. I feel like I cant trust them, they will leave eventually so I take my distance to keep me from feeling broken as in the past 

But with him it's different. He's the first person I ever loved so badly, the first person who was kind and treated me like I was special and made me feel alive. The first person I trusted and shared first things with. He gave me a bit more self confidence
Hes the only guy who I would do anything for and the only person who I reply to within mins. He's someone who I have clinged on too much, I think about him all day and even wait for him te messege or call me, when he doesn't I feel so sad and the hard part is when he does call me or talk with me, I feel very happy and think it will change but it doesn't. I still feel anxies. He then goes back eventually to the late replies and short messeges, i feel like he backs away when I tell him I feel insecure, I feel like I annoy him or make him feel bad when I tell him I miss him or feel sad. 
He's a good guy with a great and kind heart

I just don't know what to do anymore, I hate my personality, I'm even crying when I write this. I feel like an emotional mess

Anxiety

Choosing self respect over love is difficult but worth it. I loved him, I still do but choosing myself over him is something I have decided at the end. he is caring, he is supporting, he is everything a girl dreams but we can't walk on the same mile. Robert frost said two roads diverge in a yellow woods. we are the two roads. we will never meet. but like the two roads connected at a point, a part of me will always stay connected with him, no matter how old I grow. everything in this world is planned by destiny, we just have to keep faith. I don't know whether I will meet him someday or not but I will always and forever cherish the memories I have with him. he took a part of me with him. people said you don't love him you never loved him, because if you did how can you let him go easily? I can't explain them. I can't explain them that I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED HIM ENOUGH TO LET HIM GO.

Loss

I miss him. He makes me feels better when I'm around him. I thought that we had something special. I guess I was wrong. He choose her. I am not good enough for him. When we're together it makes me feel fulfilled. Like there's nothing else in this world. Now he knows that i still love him. When I looks at him it feels real. I want him to feel the same. But that will never happen. He was a part of my small world. I don't want him in any other way. When I looks into his eyes there is nothing. I am more sure abt I miss him. But he don't even miss me. He wants her. I was the only one in his relationship with me, he never was. He don't want me anymore The day I stopped doing Efforts, that relationship also ended....🥀

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