My boyfriend is moving away for college. Although right now it is online so he is still here however he really does suck at online communication and it's really really hard to understand what is going on in his mind or if he still has feelings for me or not. However, whenever I meet him, he becomes the opposite (mostly). in the sense that he at least talks and shit. this is getting more and more difficult for me. how the fuck are we going to maintain a relationship like that.

It is kinda difficult to tell him stuff online with him starting his college as well.

Well long-distance sucks that I know and but try to do a proper communication about your doubts or overthinking.

Boyfriend

Feeling weird. I've never put in so much effort in a relationship but no matter what I do, its ever enough for my boyfriend. He just thinks I'm not investing 'enough'. After he pestered me, I agreed that okay, yes probably we are on a different page, but as long as we are on the same chapter, IT IS OK. But clearly not, I don't know or understand, what I should do or not do to make it work. I really love him and do everything in my power to make him happy. I am not trying to victimize myself. He does a lot too, and really values this. 

As per him, he thinks from a long term perspective and I, from a short term, day-to-day basis. This, according to him, reflects in our differing standards, decisions, responses, etc. Thus, although I told him "Im getting there", he is skeptical that he may not be there by the time I get there. But why should we ruin what we have today and the present in anticipation of what may or may NOT happen in the future. 

I know this can turn into something beautiful and magnificent. But this rough patch, hopefully, is just a phase. At the end of the day, HOPE is all that we can live with. We love each other, undoubtedly, but I don't know what is it that I did that has poked holes in this. 




Long Distance Relationship

so, i have no friends atm only a boyfriend so needed someone to talk to about things, i’ve been going through something quite weird and confusing w my boyfriend and i just feel like i’ve turned into a person i never wanted to be, i’m just constantly thinking what if he’s thought about breaking up before, what if he thinks there’s more attractive girls than me, what if he’s doing things behind my back, i just feel like i constantly have to ask him questions so that i have reassurance but that just makes me feel controlling, just needed someone to talk to so any reply would help

Lonely

I thought I will not share this on this platform but huh! I see a need for me to vent out! Most of us have someone we want to share our life with! I have always waited for love to knock at my door, so I kept waiting.but one day I got so desperate and got into a relationship which just lasted for 10days! Nothing was wrong with the guy it's just something was missing! Maybe a feeling! Belonging?!. There is a guy who I met on insta, we talked to eachother for 1 year he used to flirt with me but I always ignored it! At that time he had a breakup with his gf, I dnt respond to him because I felt like a backup to him. So I stayed calm even though I had felt something for him! And one fine day when I realised their might be some truth to his words i pickedup some courage and confessed to him! He said he is back with his ex! Wow! I was startled!!! I asked him if you have never moved on from her then why did you talk to me like that! I was more  shocked by the response he gave! He said even if it had some meaning back then we never had a talk! I was like wow! When you have not moved on from someone you love pls dont play with other people's feeling! Cause that other person is already trying to mend their broken heart and then you show up and do such things with them! They are destroyed! 

Love

okay so my ex bf is now dating my brothers ex gf. man are they going to have some talks lmaoooooo 

I'm feeling hurt by my boyfriend of 3 years who told me he is not sure whether he wants me in his life. I told him it's over. I really loved him and even last year he proposed to me. But this year he has changed. I'm hurt and can't stop crying

I feel so lost
I had a relationship for 2 years with a guy I met in my office. We started talking and fell in love very quickly. First it was odd to me but I let that happen. I thought I fell in love with an amazing guy who will understand me and give me everything I wanted. I wanted him to become the man of my life. 
In the first week of our relationship he started acting insecure. Don't talk to him, that guy is not good. If I would deny his allegations he would shout and cry. Like I'm being dishonest or disloyal to the relationship. 
I started listening to him cut off all the friends from my life, stopped talking to people in my office totally isolated myself. 
After a year I've got to know about his lies. I always had doubts about him but the way he cried I thought I was over thinking. He lied about his another job he told me was doing on a contractual basis. 

Anxiety

this is what i would love to tell him, but it would complicate all three of our lives:

it has been you for the past six years
i know i have him, and i believed this time it is different, that he is the love of my life, that i can be around you as a friend, that i can have a healthy relationship with him - and for the past year and a half, when we didn't speak, i had
but then you come, then you come back to me crying about some other girl, that also worked for me, because i am in love with him and you're in love with her and we can keep it that way and god, i love talking to you, you are my favourite person to talk to, and maybe that is why i've never been able to get over you
and then you come, and we start speaking again
then we start seeing each other again
then we start seeing each other really often again
and i really thought we could be friends - after all, it has been three years
'we were drunk' isn't an excuse, we both know we both wanted it
but i can not do this to him, however i can admit that letting go of that kiss and not taking you home just across the street was  one of the hardest things i have ever had to do
i still think of that kiss
you were there and he wasn't 
at first i regretted kissing you, now i regret not kissing you longer
jesus christ, what have we done

Cheating

Should I call him or not. He told me that he feels really alone at night, I wanted to call him so he feels less alone but I am scared that it's a bad idea to call like that

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