My boyfriend is becoming irritating day by day WHAT SHOULD I DO๐๐๐
We had a fight.
Reason: it was saturday.weekend right. I wanted him to myself for the whole day but instead of talking to me he slept all day saying im tired. I was angry thori ladai hoi fir at night i said its ok hota ha. I was normal now. Butttt๐ he started talking about sleep again saying he is tired, advising me to sleep also. Stupid and pathetic tbvh.all i wanted was to talk to him to make myself feel better thus week was rough for me. I stopped talking to him after a major fight. Now its been 4 days he didnt talk, didnโt even understood what i want. Just good night sad texts. Now today, some hours ago, he texted me m marne lga hun tumne bat nahi krni tu yeh wo dukhi msgs.๐ DUDE JUST SETTLE IT LIKE A GROWN MAN INSTEAD OF GETTING EMOTIONAL .he always do that and talk s hit like that. Im getting irritated by these kind of fights. Should i break up or tell me how can i fix this dum b head person๐
Hn. Noo but He is soo stupid
How can i when he act like this
Aditya Lavate @aditya1306
Huh put some senses into him and be straight forward and tell him to handle things maturely tell him how u expect him to handle situation
But please discuss all this when u guys meet dont do it online
Meet.lol
Yahan baat nahi hori mily ga kon
Aditya Lavate @aditya1306
If he wanna sort out he will be willing to meet u
4 days
Day 1 emotional texts
Day 2 no text just good night
Day 3 no text just good night
Day 4 marney lga hun m
Dewar se lar rahi hun m
I m talking to a wall๐wall is him. No response
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Dante @varun24
Nothing could good will happen if you take decision in angry or hurryโฆItโs only a fightโฆit happens in relationshipโฆI am sure you both will get over itโฆAnd be together.
He act like its the end. Why canโt he just sit and talk to me. Its been 4 days. Aik msg kr k sort things with me :/
Dante @varun24
Give some timeโฆDonโt take too much load on yourselfโฆIf you see no scopeโฆNo futureโฆNo happinessโฆThen do what you think best for you only.
I love this dum b a s s :/
I cannot breakup with him i love him i want him to get better but he is so emotionally unstable
Dante @varun24
Well the thing isโฆYou canโt control people mind.
They will do according to themselves what they think is best โฆIf you donโt wanna breakupโฆHave some faith in him and you bothโฆBoth of you take some timeโฆIt is also not necessary people you love will remain with you alwaysโฆSome stays some goโฆ
But first thing firstโฆAlways give importance to yourselfโฆCause one of you should need to be stable.
He only take naps be grateful that heโs not cheater. Lol focus on your growth why chasing him 24/7 you donโt have anything else to doโฆ
Thats why i gave proper info about what it was. It was Saturday. I wait whole week to talk to him we donโt talk much in working days
Kya bta dena
Im not breaking up i have not that much courage
Letโs talk about it?
Exactly what he should have said. But no. Marna h inko pehle
Kya mtlb?
Just call him and dont solve it or fight on texts . Call him and be clear. If he wants rest he can after giving u some time. That was a whole day he could have given you at least 1 hour . Just be clear about what you want and what is hurting you. You guys are old enough to solve this.
He should have called me . Shouldnโt he? Whole week was so bad for me. He should have asked me what im feeling
I totally agree. He should have. Thatโs his fault. But as of now itโs hurting you. And if you think he didnโt understand the problem u can just call and tell him. Clearly. If u want to solve that it. U can also tell how u expected him to understand. But if u r done u can always give up.
But before u think of ending things. One last try is always worth it.
Yes u are right ๐ have headache for four days. I will call that du mb head tommorow and see what will happen
Good luck girl ๐ค
Thnks ๐โจ
Looks like mistakes have been made from both the ends. Maybe he was having a rough week as well. Maybe he wanted it some time for himself. Ik itโs very childish of him but we boys do this kinda shi tt for no obvious reasons. Trust me he will come to you with more love and warmth. If he texts you then talk to him. Listen to him first and then put your point forward. Encourage him to put his heart out in front of you.
I wish you both luck ๐ค
Lol. Only if he had texted me properly. Only One proper texts !( other than good night/good morning) in four daysโฆ could have solved so much.
I know i could have been wrong. But do you want to call him or text him? Ik we all have ego, but ig donโt let it ruin your relationship plz. Be a bigger person in a relationship. It will help you in the future trust me.
Krungi kl call๐ i will be the bigger person โฆ ofcourse
I want things to workโฆ one last chance
Thank you. And plz pls donโt bring anything that could turn into a fight. Just let this time pass. Jab mile wo tab pura time acche se spend kar k last me batana usko k bhutni k teko pata h kitna miss kiya mene.
๐๐lol
Alright thnks buddy
No probs. Have a good one and let us know what happened. Bhyii pata to chale k counselling me future h ya nahi ๐ซฐ
So i called him ๐ i talked to him in lighter mood,. but he was still in his zone. He said , usay kuch din chaye. M usay kch din dun :) i didnโt reply and cut the call.
This happened :)
๐ no
Looks like youโre being childish and emotional
and HOW?
Quit wining about this like lil childrenโฆ talk to em over the call and solve itโฆ its not that hard buddyโฆ if heโs willing to speak, heโd do thatโฆ
Else yk what to doโฆ
Maybe he was just tired? Or he might be less expressive. Some men donโt express at all. On top of that if you fight, they will go to more denial.
Afraid of you and hate to talk to you cos they know you will fight again. Very immature it is, but you are expecting someone to understand you, who doesnโt understand himself well now.
Frustrated at this timeโฆ Seriously.
