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Anonymous

My boyfriend is a big red flag I have ever seen ! I was so blind to realise this reality of him !!! I really feel like he should get punished very badly…this is insane !!! He tortured me for 4 years and I thought that I have to ignore it Cz we are in love bla bla bla ! And this is the main reason he got more support to be mean rude disrespectful! He has this audacity to call my parents in the night and bother them asking where am I when I don’t feel like picking up his call because I know he does this drama after drinking ! Everytime he involves my family and I never did that !
He has spoiled my life completely !!! My brain has stopped working seriously!!! All I feel is stress all the time !!!
When ever he is angry he calls my frnds and tell lies !! So that they would get worried and call me and ask me to call him ! When I try to ignore him he msgs me stuff like I’m falling sick need to call ambulance! I need you n all that ! And I know this is all drama !!! Most of the time he wants to have sexual intercourse like wth whyyyyy !! Earlier in our relationship he use to get violent then slowly and gradually he stopped that ! But his anger issues and his drinking issues has always been a big problem in our relationship!!! Then comes his doubts even though when I’m with girls he has insecurities!!! He ask me to leave everyone ! Or else he fights and then that person leaves me !!!
And when I ask him to leave me he threatens me that he would do bad with my house Cz rytnow he’s living there ! He threatens me that he would die ! He threatens me in every way possible!!! He wants me to listen to him he wants me to do what he says ! And I freaking want to get out of all this but then I get scared that what if he does bad to my house or my parents or me !? Or what if he tells my family that we got physical and we were in live-in !
I’m so confused what to do ??? Also he does not help me to grow in any way !! I have realised each and every bit now after 4 years but I don’t know how to handle all this situation!!!
I’m so so so stressed I’m so done I just want to get out of all this 😓

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Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2

Mitr wo apko emotional blackmail kr raha hai pehli baat doosri baat wo sbse apka milna julna kum krwa raha hai jis sai ap kisi sai khul kr ye share na kr sako aur darte raho direct ap usse block kro aur thori strong bano like jabhi wo apke parents ko kahe to ap bhi jawab do agar ap kuch nahi kahoge to wo aisa hi krega aur ap darte rahoge

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Anonymous

Thanks , I’m focusing on myself now

@meredith5_

I am so glad I am a female, and that I am lesbian. 

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Anonymous

I’m glad too , that you need not have to face all this !! Male dominance!!!
But ever in your life you feel low , ping me !!! Will be their for you

@intuitive_monk

Perfect example of Gaslighting. Girl don’t be afraid. In your case it’s postive that your family knows about him. Try to take their support to fight this guy

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Anonymous

Thanks I fought with this situation and now I’m going to focus on myself

@intuitive_monk

If you need any support just ping me

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Suraj B. @suraj_biswas

I’m deeply concerned about the abuse you’re experiencing in your relationship. Your boyfriend’s behavior is unacceptable, and you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.

I understand that you’re feeling scared, confused, and trapped. It’s important to remember that you’re not alone. There are people who care about you and want to help you break free from this toxic situation.

Taking the first step towards a safer and happier life is crucial. Please reach out for support and consider booking a personal session with me to discuss your situation in more detail. Together, we can develop a plan to help you safely leave this abusive relationship and begin to heal.

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Anonymous

Thanks , for now things are in control and I’m going to focus on myself!!! But if I ever need any help will definitely ping u

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Anonymous

Moye moye 🥲🫠

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Anonymous

Thanks for making me laugh !!! 😅

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Anonymous

How are you doin’?

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Anonymous

Much better !!! Actually the situation is in control and now I think I really need to focus on myself

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Anonymous

Good 😊

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Anonymous

How are you doing ??

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Anonymous

Fine very much!

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