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My boyfriend cheated on me during april 2023. His friends helped him out. The girl knew that i was his gf and they’re all from the same batch. We tried working it out but he wouldn’t be actively participating in giving efforts in rebuilding the relationship, he would say he’s trying but he would do nothing, it would disappoint me and it would make me angry which then would ultimately make me seem like a bad guy. Finally a month back he said he didn’t want to do continue it anymore and so i let go. He cheated on me during my exams, it was painful for me to rebuild the relationship while trying to forgive him but still i tried. I think i still haven’t healed properly from the betrayal. Recently i started dating a guy and i straight up told him that I don’t want to be committed cos mentally i am not ready to have my trust broken again. The second guy was also cheated on and he too has trust issues. He loves me a lot i think and i think he is too possessive. He accuses me of cheating on him all the time and recently told me that it’s over because he thought i was cheating on him. I’m pretty clueless rn, everyone is making it seem like it’s my fault.

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@_misra

Even you have someone, i tried for more than a year but the result is zero

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Kashish J. @kashish_jain

Chasing someone who is worth it, and is meant for you will never go in vain.

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Kashish J. @kashish_jain

I am sorry to hear for whatever you have to go through. Jumping onto a new relationship without healing from the last can often lead to more damage and disappointments. I totally empathize with you because I have been into a similar situation. You can talk to me more about it if you want and we can discuss how to get last this phase

Anonymous

Mitr apki fault nahi hai

@teo_

Can you connect with me. I want to discuss something with you

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@bunny__

I think we must be dealing with a same situation, we can talk if you need to

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Anonymous

The last guy that cheated on you wasn’t your your fault babe … he didn’t work for the relationship so why are you blaming yourself for that ? May be you got some mistakes and you can learn from them but it was not your fault … process that relationship… and about the next I don’t know what to say but may be give some time to yourself alone … calm down and relax … and give some time to this relationship as well

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Shabana S. @shabana_saiyye...

Sweetheart… betrayal is horrible, it changes how we see people and love, you will have to learn your way to trust again, don’t push yourself too much but dating someone who is also broken and accusing is a bad idea
You are right when you think you need time
Give yourself time to heal and Learn and get therapy
Betrayal is not your fault and it never was, leaving someone accusing you is right thing not your fault
Take care 💟

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Shabana S. @shabana_saiyye...

Even he needs to learn that one person cheated doesn’t mean everyone is going to cheat
And learning to trust

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kuro neko @kuro_noir

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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