My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. Iβve been in love with him for the past 9 years. Weβre childhood best friends and now even though after the break up weβre really good friends Iβm just broken inside. He broke up with me and I canβt force him to get back with me. Iβm broken. I donβt know what to do. I want to say I love you to him. I want to call him and say cheesy things to him. Now all I can do is write I love you and backspace it and it just makes me cry all day.
See itβs just the presence and me.ories of the person . A person can not be your life he can be just a part of your life which made you happy and itβs not like that you cannot live without him , maybe your destiny would have more great chances to you than crying for a person who left you even after 9 years .
He didnβt technically leave me because weβre still best friends but we just started dating last year and before that I had been in love with him
Hello, I totally get you. Trust me,Iβve been through the same. I know how terrible that feels. I just want you to know that time heals. It really does. You will get strong. It can happen in a few months or even take an year. But you will get through. Also, you donβt have to be with someone who is not ready for the commitment. You love him unconditionally & you DESERVE THE SAME. If youβre not getting it back, itβs okay to let it go. As much as you really wanna talk to him, I would suggest you to hold yourself back because, this way, youβll never ever be able to make yourself stronger or even move on. If heβs the on for you, heβll get back. Otherwise, youβll have to step back & stand for yourself coz nobody else will. Lots of positive vibes to you & may you come out stronger!β€οΈ
I so agree with this.
Take a break and find something to keep you engaged. What would you do if he never came into your life? Letβs just go by the assumption that heβs never coming back in a relationship with you and start picking up your life piece by piece.
Whereβs your bag of aspirations? Where are your best friends from school and college? Whatβs your favorite food that you havenβt eaten in a while?