My boyfriend and I recently broke up. I was the one to end this relationship because I was very hurt and he was begging me to stay. So after a few days we started talking again and he told me let’s go get lunch and talk about things. Should I go?
nitesh @niteshgarg_
Give him another chance…he has learned from his mistake…
Well what if he hasn’t? How would I know that?
nitesh @niteshgarg_
So here’s the thing… If he starts talking about getting back into a relationship and all that stuff so get an idea he hasn’t changed and he might repeat the same thing. But if he is talking normally about well being and all and trying not to get back together, it means there’s some scope of improvement… Everyone deserves a second chance 🌺
I’ve given him a lot of chances already and I’ve suffocated a lot in this relationship
I’m really confused about what to do
nitesh @niteshgarg_
So what did he do??
At first he was not giving me time, not making me his priority while he was my priority, ignoring me most of the time, joking about my insecurities, not wanting to post me on social medias while I wanted to, talking to 3 girls at different time and telling me that he was trying to find his best friend a girlfriend and I believed him but still we were having a lot of arguments because of that and a few times I was loudly shouted at.
nitesh @niteshgarg_
Well i believe that then you shouldn’t try contacting him again. Let him feel your absence for a while… Just try new things in your life… And let him be whatever he is…
VJ @vjeshna10
I’ve tried. He contacts me daily and gives me all of his time now. It seems like he’s changed. He’s actually making efforts and I can see that but I don’t wanna trust him again.
I’ve tried staying far from him but he still look out for me every time and I miss him when I don’t talk to him
nitesh @niteshgarg_
Obviously you ain’t with him now… He will try contacting you and gather your trust… But he might brake that again… Tried blocking him?
VJ @vjeshna10
I’ve tried. He tries to contact me through my friends and annoys them to make me unblock him
nitesh @niteshgarg_
Oh god 😂… He’s not the guy for you… Just leave him… If he’s doing that kind of shit like calling from somewhere else… Just you know try complaining at police
Hey buddy! I’ve been through the same exact thing, let me know if you wanna talk about it
