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My boyfriend and I broke up because I apparently didn’t know how to regulate my emotions. My emotional bandwidth was too much for him. I was going through a very low phase where I was working in a high pressure 24*7 availability internship with no job security. It was taking a toll on me and I would start crying out of nowhere. After our fights grew, I sought help professionally and got better, but then it seemed like he just wanted to censor a lot of things
Like he wanted a perfect person with a perfect life and I am really trying that I do not go in a spiral and avoid dating at all.

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Further, he wanted me to not share things with him which were trivial as per hum. For me, they were not trivial.

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Anonymous
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Okay. Take a decision if you want to go back to him. Either ways, sort out your mental issues if there are any. It will help you. I am sure you will be do well

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Going back is not an option. I don’t want to go back either. But I think I felt like I cannot open upto my partner here

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Speak to ur partner

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Trival means

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As in the things that were big and affecting me, seemed very minute or easy to him

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Kya ap jab unhe incidents batati thi jo apko affect kr raha hai to wo usse sunkar kuch solution dete thai ya only hmm hm krte thai

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It’s good that you broke up. Not everyone can be emotionally available. The guy not understanding your emotional requirement wouldn’t be a great person when you need him the most.

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May be. May be I didn’t know how to regulate myself then. But I genuinely was going through a tough time mentally.

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If you are dating someone then the other person should be able to understand your emotions and not invalidate them. Being an emotional person I know how hard it is to tell people what you’re going through with the fear of being judged and not understanding

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May be. I just don’t want to fall in a spiral where I stop dating at all. Of course I will take time, but it has happened before that I have refrained from dating only

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Anonymous
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Do whatever you feel is right. As it’s important for you to be comfortable with anything around. Take things slowly

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I’m also going through this condition 😞

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I hope you are okay. Please take care

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How long was your relationship?

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Anonymous
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A year exactly. Including the 3 month get to know each dating phase

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When was the last time you talked to him?

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Been a while.

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If major things of yours aren’t major for him, it shows he’s not that much understanding. Was it a long distance relationship?

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Hey

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