My boyfriend and I are in ldr recently he has started to be a little distant and leaves me on delivered and doesn't text me back for like 12-14 hours and also we talk only for few minutes at night . What does this mean ?

This means prepare yourself to handle the stress.. talk to him whats gng on and if he is still interested in the relationship.. Sorry for being direct but can be the truth. 

Relationships

*The people, conversations, and experiences you allow into your life become a part of you. Choose them wisely. 

*Don’t be afraid to love again. Not everyone is like your ex.

Growing Up

In love with someone. But can't be with him. He was separated when we met and was about to apply for divorce but now things have changed and his wife is back. They do not share a very good relationship. She is verbally and physically abusive. I have heard her. His family seems to be happy with the arrangement. I am finding it really difficult to move on. We work together and i see him almost everyday. My parents are pressuring me to get married and i also feel the need for companionship. 

What should I do? Is it okay to continue seeing him knowing that there is no future together? I am just stuck at if it is morally right? Should I move ahead with an arranged marriage for which I am probably not ready. 

He is also going through a major depression phase for which he's not ready to take any counselling. He feels i should move on as he's not worth my time because he suffers from an autoimmune disease which would affect his mobility in old age. 

I just can't take the decision. He's the best i have had till now. I have never been so comfortable with anyone in my life. 





Mental Health

Hello everyone, 

Hope you all are doing good!

I just wanted to share that I feel very rejected and hurt. I am through a breakup and breakups are tough. But it is tougher when you love each other but can't be with each other because if the external issues like family you are unable to fight against. And to be honest, he has changed my life in way I can't even explain. And what did I do? I just left him more hurt and vulnerable. I am disappointed at myself. I feel insecure and uncertain. My confidence and self worth is very low rn. I don't have friends I can share this with. So here I am just trying to convince myself that everything will be alright. 

Breakup

I’m so mad at him because he’s ruining his life. He chronically self sabotages and pushes everything good away, including me. He remains in a job that makes him miserable (having panic attacks, barely can eat, etc.) and he stays living a lifestyle that he hates. He thinks he’s incapable of so many things, when in reality he’s capable. I wish he would get help. Our relationship didn’t have to end. 

Im so worried things are going to get so bad to the point where he can’t handle it anymore. Why does he choose to live in misery, when he could have the world? 

I was hoping this website could help me...

I had a boyfriend a year ago, we lasted only 5 months because we were scared to be found. I have strict parents at that time so I thought of keeping a low profile but he said he wanted to end it, so we broke up. Right now we've been talking again and we're fine, we already said our apologies and became grateful to have each other before. But now he's been sending me mixed signals, in an app he asked to match our avatars. We really looked like a couple, he even treated me like I was hi gf. He's planning to go on my 18th bday, and i heard he would wait for me. Should I trust him again and give another chance?


Long Distance Relationship

I gathered courage and broke up w my ex 15 days back, we were in love and wanted to get married. Our parents were happy w the relationship too, but since the past 1 year he was a changed man. When we first started dating he asked for the password of my social media, and i was so mad in love i gave it to him, he also exchanged his passwords w me, everything was great for a year, we were happy, we had our fights but nothing major, suddenly one day after a stupid small fight he said you keep your passwords to yourself and I'll keep mine, we should make new friends, I didn't understand what happened but i agreed to it because i thought there was nothing wrong and i trusted him anyway, so I didn't need his passwords. Few days after when i was clicking a selfie from his phone i see a girls text saying hi cutie, i was a lil sceptical and when i confronted he fought, i understood that they must be friends, few days later he talks to some girl in the night who is his friend but lied to me that it was all boys conference call when i confronted he asked me to fuck off, I forgave him because we saw a future together, with time I started to notice things, everytime i use to say him things that bothered me, we would end up fighting. We live in the same city and he only use to meet me once a week for an hour though he use to get down everyday, for a year i fought for us asking him to meet me atleast two days a week when he lived 5 mins away from home, i was never against him meeting his friends, he said don't try to dominate me, i was only asking him to meet me 2 days and meet his friends for 5 days, until i gave up, and broke up w him, in these 2 years i never went out w him, he acts like i did the wrong thing breaking up w him, he behaves like a victim and shows that i was the wrong one to break up w him, that i only wanted to go out to fancy places that is why I broke up w him, but i loved him and wanted to marry him, and if i need to ask for something as basic as time and efforts , how can i marry someone like that? 


There is a guy. We used to sit together when we were kids. We barely talked when we grew up now we are texting each other, well that too on rare cases. He shares his life experience with me. Should I also open up or just stay hidden...? 
Like, he would share everything with his besties and one of his besties is my bully, so I thunk I should just stay mysterious right? 

Friends

I recently had a breakup
and the reason was that after he brokeup with me I deleted all the posts with him and pretended to not care and then he came back and said alot of bad things(ofcourse it's obvious) 
but idk what to do now because I did it because I didn't want people to know I'm suffering, and I didn't know he wanted to come in my life after breaking up
And now I regret deleting the posts alot, because of that I lost my love
it's hurting alot
every single thing is hurting alot 
I don't wanna think about how it won't hurt in future, it's just rn hurting alot
I cry every single minute
there's not a moment when I'm laughing or even happy
Every single thing reminds me of him, because everything was what I did with him
it's been 3 days, with or without phone, with or without those stupid reels it's still hurting
and nothing is cooperating
a little stress on my head and it starts paining as hell
I'm not able to concentrate on lectures I don't understand what they're saying
I sit to read Harry Potter but I don't know what I'm reading
I watch kdrama's and I just notice the things I relate to and I just don't know what else is going on 
I try to lie down and not think but tears come out
I try to sleep and night but even though I'm so tired my eyes don't get rest
I know he was angry, but the way he talked to me keeps hurting me again and again
Plus knowing he's hurting is hurting me

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