My Body Count as a Woman is in Double Digits.
I’m not Proud of it.
I’ve always put myself out there to receive Love and give Love. A commitment, but the men in my life, used me a left in a span of months.
Not been in a proper relationship other than my three 3 boyfriends.
Am I the fool ?
Been honest with the Man I currently like.
He judged me and said I’m not meant for him. I’m far from Redemption?
Raza Khan @thegentleguide
Firstly, the best thing I liked here is that you are accepting yourself.
Secondly, Indian men don’t want their to be spouse to have had multiple relations in the past and expect a pure girl in terms of intimacy.
I would suggest you to not at all go to that stage wherein men get to do this and then they can leave you.
Find someone that is exciting, tell them this about you in a twisted way and then get married with the guy who’s fine with it because you don’t plan to do that again and get your heart broken.
Make this promise to yourself.
Nandhu Jayan @nandhu_j
You have to look for yourself body count in double digits means you have something regarding commitment or you are finding someone who you dont want to commit
As a guy i dont think these many guys would been with you only for ur body , give some time to urself … everything will be alright
Well you don’t need any validation so just be yourself that’s it.
your body count has got nothing to do with your character. If you are a great human being then you will find your right person at some point in your life. Just wait and don’t settle for less, tc dear🫂🌻
Hey went through same in past not in double digits though but yes it is to some extent more in number… still going through all this but I have just learned to stay alone and love myself and realised nobody deserves this much efforts from you if only you are making efforts and now am done with dating and all… I don’t know how my future will be and neither I am worried about it because honestly nobody has anything pure in them in this world everybody is imperfect we have all just learnt to hide our imperfections because of society … nobody got a pure soul and here we are talking about body counts… well I have nothing more to say … hope you get a good understanding guy soon
Thankyou:)
Hey plz don’t discuss with your future spouse about body count. Even if you think of marrying through love setup, don’t disclose. Just tell 2 relations only after he discloses about his ex. Don’t tell anything in arrange setup. Dear, I want to tell you pls don’t chase boys for some years. You are being persistently being hurt by them, pls don’t give these guys a chance to hurt you again. Even if you are of a marriageable age don’t easily get caught up in a relationship. Have only formal chat not go beyond it. Due to loneliness, I think you want to find someone to take care of you. Be single for sometime, God will send you a partner. These relationships came into your life to teach you that you have to love yourself first instead of depending on companionship. God bless you.
Your well wisher:)
