my bf plays video games literally from the time he wakes up until he goes to sleep. I pretty much have to beg for his attention. I also recently figured out he was communicating with his ex. Weāve been tg for 4 years. I gave him my virginity. Heās all I know. I feel so alone and broken. idk what to doā¦
Have you talked to him about how his video games & him talking to his ex make you feel?
Yes. Iāve mentioned it. However, he acts sad and says that video games are how he copes. But when I walk out of the room he just continues to laugh with his friends. I havenāt mentioned the ex he has no idea that I know.
Sometimes itās best to put up what YOU want.
Do you want him to spend time with you? Tell him that!
If his talking to his Ex bothers you, tell him that as well.
Iām scared of how he will react
Well; you canāt always be afraid of him for a successful relationship.
I think if you do not communicate; you & he may just be roommates. If you tell him what bothers you, he can understand your needs.
How old are yāall ā¦if you donāt mind
18 & 20
Girl, you will thank this stranger one day. No offense but please save yourself now itself and move from that relationship. Heās too immature to even understand what you are feeling even if you communicate to him. After four years if he feels the need to get in touch with ex then this guy isnāt going to do any good for your long term. Even I play pubg daily. But not for more than an hour. The moment I know someone needs my attention, I am there. Save yourself some future hurt
its so hardā¦it hurts so much
I totally understand you. I too broke up when I was with someone for three years from age 18-21. For few days it felt like il never recover. It felt like I donāt have anyone. But itās better than wasting more years of your life and thinking ā¦why did I not take this decision when I was sweet 18 and had so many options to get back to life in full form?
thank you for thisā¦
This is the advantage of being young. :) Learn lessons from boys and next time make a wiser decision. All the best š¦
