my bf plays video games literally from the time he wakes up until he goes to sleep. I pretty much have to beg for his attention. I also recently figured out he was communicating with his ex. We’ve been tg for 4 years. I gave him my virginity. He’s all I know. I feel so alone and broken. idk what to do…
Have you talked to him about how his video games & him talking to his ex make you feel?
Yes. I’ve mentioned it. However, he acts sad and says that video games are how he copes. But when I walk out of the room he just continues to laugh with his friends. I haven’t mentioned the ex he has no idea that I know.
Sometimes it’s best to put up what YOU want.
Do you want him to spend time with you? Tell him that!
If his talking to his Ex bothers you, tell him that as well.
I’m scared of how he will react
Well; you can’t always be afraid of him for a successful relationship.
I think if you do not communicate; you & he may just be roommates. If you tell him what bothers you, he can understand your needs.
How old are y’all …if you don’t mind
18 & 20
Girl, you will thank this stranger one day. No offense but please save yourself now itself and move from that relationship. He’s too immature to even understand what you are feeling even if you communicate to him. After four years if he feels the need to get in touch with ex then this guy isn’t going to do any good for your long term. Even I play pubg daily. But not for more than an hour. The moment I know someone needs my attention, I am there. Save yourself some future hurt
its so hard…it hurts so much
I totally understand you. I too broke up when I was with someone for three years from age 18-21. For few days it felt like il never recover. It felt like I don’t have anyone. But it’s better than wasting more years of your life and thinking …why did I not take this decision when I was sweet 18 and had so many options to get back to life in full form?
thank you for this…
This is the advantage of being young. :) Learn lessons from boys and next time make a wiser decision. All the best 🦄