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Sayali @sayaliii3

My bf and I decided to take break . Because of some issue . It’s just a day . He started again trying to contact me . But he is the one who want to keep this relationship in a friend way after dating for a year . Because of my mistake . He can’t forgive me for that . He always keep bringing them again and again . I want him to forgive me for it , that’s why we just decided to stay as a friend . But when it’s break we should not talk to each but he is trying to contact me and even I’m not avoiding it I answer all his call . But the conversion are not normal . If he miss me he should say . He don’t accept anything.

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Sayali @sayaliii3

Yeah exactly . The day we started dating I was the only one he use to talk to. And now it’s become an habit for both of us . But I want him to heal things which are hurting him . That’s why the space and break is necessary . But if we talk daily then what the use of that normal everything feel normal like before and I don’t want that . Because now I’m trying to find myself . because I gave more than myself in this relationship . Now I want me . I love him . But he confuses me sometime . First of all he don’t express at all . Which make things more complicated for both us . Even now when he miss me he try to hide it . But his action shows that he does .

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Sayali @sayaliii3

But I’m really confused now . Like he says be prepare anything can happen . This break can turn into actual breakup now for me there no hope left . I can’t just keep waiting for someone .even when I love him . Just because I love him I should wait . Why can’t he understand we are all not perfect . Mistake happen .we should forgive and forgot . But if you can’t then let us moveon which will be better for both of us . But we both are trying to hold on each other. Idk what to do in such situation I’m so confused now

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Anonymous

Whatever you wrote here, just tell this to him. You are hesitating coz you dont wanna hurt him , but please understand that its necessary for both of you to take break

Sayali @sayaliii3

Yes I’ll try to sort the things out .

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