vansh @vansh_010
My bestie is no longer my bestie can anyone please tell how to move on?
Be strong dear. I believe if gou wanna move on that you have accepted it and no longer want to be bff now. So I suggest you to go easy on yourself and try to divert ur mind towards positive things around you.
vansh @vansh_010
But I am unable to do that all the time I think about her
Do you want her back or just want to move on?
vansh @vansh_010
Actually I want her back and i am still talking wid her but not as a bestie she told for now we are strangers like we can talk but canât be friends for now
vansh @vansh_010
Btw form where r u
Just talk with her. The best way to deal with all this is to communicate.
vansh @vansh_010
But I think sheâs not at all interested she only replies to what I ask and uk what the worst thing is she has made my male best friend her new bestie
Then ask her na if she wants to keep ur friendship? If you were Bestfriends, then u have that right
vansh @vansh_010
Bro but whenever I ask about friendship she ignores that thing and when I continuously asked her that question once she replied that she doesnât know what to say
Just try to be distant from her for two three days. If she is interested, she will definitely notice
vansh @vansh_010
If thatâs the solution than I think sheâs not interested bcoz I tried that and i think she doesnât care and are u girl or a boy bcoz if Iâm getting it from a boy than u r good
Whyâs that?
vansh @vansh_010
For what u r asking
vansh @vansh_010
And whatâs your age ?
Gender? If I am a boy, then how itâs gud?
vansh @vansh_010
No by good I mean good at giving advice generally boys donât give such good advice thatâs all I wanna say please donât take in a bad way
No no. I was just curious. And to answer ur ques, I am a girl.
vansh @vansh_010
Can we become friends pls?
vansh @vansh_010
Mam please
vansh @vansh_010
If u want I can give my social media id
Sure
vansh @vansh_010
Plz dm on vansh_010 on in.s.ta
vansh @vansh_010
And whatâs your age
Same here I also want to forget someone n move on in lifeâŠits hard to forget
vansh @vansh_010
Was she your girlfriend
NoâŠit was one of the matrimony proposalâŠbut we had good connection n bonding âŠbut our parents were against so we had to stop talkingâŠ
vansh @vansh_010
So u a girl or a boy
girl
vansh @vansh_010
Ok so the person u loved was rejected by your parents
My parents rejected him and his parents rejected me
Reason both different cities n communities
vansh @vansh_010
So i think your case is like the movie 2 states đ
May b yes âŠbut reality is different than films
vansh @vansh_010
Di u wanna connect on social media?
vansh @vansh_010
I think u should make both the parents sit together and make them understand that u love eachother alot
We both tried a lot âŠbut especially his parents are not understandingâŠ
vansh @vansh_010
Are his parents conservative type parents uk like purani soch wale?
Yes âŠhis dad is very old and he said to him" if u marry this girl âŠthen dont see my face "
His dad even refused to see my pic
vansh @vansh_010
How long you have know the boy
2 yrs
vansh @vansh_010
Dii i donât think that the appropriate time (according to me ) for a marriage u should have known the boy for a bit for time âŠlike it is about your whole life
Thatâs trueâŠbut boy is already trying elsewhere according to his parents wish âŠbut Iâm not able to move on âŠ
Iâm emotionally stuck âŠn still expect him back
vansh @vansh_010
If u wanna try once more with him for your satisfaction then u must try otherwise u must move on like there are billions of other men and u will find your future partner
Hmm yes
vansh @vansh_010
So u r gonna try once more?
I dunno whatâs going to happen in future âŠif he comes back I will give a try definitelyâŠbut for sure I will not contact him from my side âŠ
vansh @vansh_010
Di acc to me noow you should stop remembering him and i think u should move on and if future mai parents ka decision badal ta h or if future mai ap dono itne capable ho jate ho ki bina kisi ke influence ke decision le sko toh woh phir app PE depend krta h but for now u should move on and try to find someone else
Hmm tbanks
vansh @vansh_010
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It will take time to recover myself
vansh @vansh_010
Yes thatâs the most toughest part but when u pass this phase u will definitely find happiness
Hmm yes
vansh @vansh_010
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