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vansh @vansh_010

My bestie is no longer my bestie can anyone please tell how to move on?

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Anonymous
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Be strong dear. I believe if gou wanna move on that you have accepted it and no longer want to be bff now. So I suggest you to go easy on yourself and try to divert ur mind towards positive things around you.

vansh @vansh_010

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But I am unable to do that all the time I think about her

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Anonymous
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Do you want her back or just want to move on?

vansh @vansh_010

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Actually I want her back and i am still talking wid her but not as a bestie she told for now we are strangers like we can talk but can’t be friends for now

vansh @vansh_010

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Btw form where r u

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Anonymous
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Just talk with her. The best way to deal with all this is to communicate.

vansh @vansh_010

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But I think she’s not at all interested she only replies to what I ask and uk what the worst thing is she has made my male best friend her new bestie

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Anonymous
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Then ask her na if she wants to keep ur friendship? If you were Bestfriends, then u have that right

vansh @vansh_010

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Bro but whenever I ask about friendship she ignores that thing and when I continuously asked her that question once she replied that she doesn’t know what to say

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Anonymous
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Just try to be distant from her for two three days. If she is interested, she will definitely notice

vansh @vansh_010

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If that’s the solution than I think she’s not interested bcoz I tried that and i think she doesn’t care and are u girl or a boy bcoz if I’m getting it from a boy than u r good

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Anonymous
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Why’s that?

vansh @vansh_010

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For what u r asking

vansh @vansh_010

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And what’s your age ?

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Anonymous
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Gender? If I am a boy, then how it’s gud?

vansh @vansh_010

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No by good I mean good at giving advice generally boys don’t give such good advice that’s all I wanna say please don’t take in a bad way

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Anonymous
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No no. I was just curious. And to answer ur ques, I am a girl.

vansh @vansh_010

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Can we become friends pls?

vansh @vansh_010

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Mam please

vansh @vansh_010

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If u want I can give my social media id

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Anonymous
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Sure

vansh @vansh_010

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Plz dm on vansh_010 on in.s.ta

vansh @vansh_010

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And what’s your age

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Anonymous
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Same here I also want to forget someone n move on in life
its hard to forget

vansh @vansh_010

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Was she your girlfriend

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Anonymous
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No
it was one of the matrimony proposal
but we had good connection n bonding 
but our parents were against so we had to stop talking


vansh @vansh_010

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So u a girl or a boy

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Anonymous
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girl

vansh @vansh_010

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Ok so the person u loved was rejected by your parents

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Anonymous
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My parents rejected him and his parents rejected me

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Anonymous
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Reason both different cities n communities

vansh @vansh_010

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So i think your case is like the movie 2 states 😁

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Anonymous
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May b yes 
but reality is different than films

vansh @vansh_010

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Di u wanna connect on social media?

vansh @vansh_010

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I think u should make both the parents sit together and make them understand that u love eachother alot

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Anonymous
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We both tried a lot 
but especially his parents are not understanding


vansh @vansh_010

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Are his parents conservative type parents uk like purani soch wale?

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Anonymous
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Yes 
his dad is very old and he said to him" if u marry this girl 
then dont see my face "

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Anonymous
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His dad even refused to see my pic

vansh @vansh_010

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How long you have know the boy

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Anonymous
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2 yrs

vansh @vansh_010

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Dii i don’t think that the appropriate time (according to me ) for a marriage u should have known the boy for a bit for time 
like it is about your whole life

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Anonymous
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That’s true
but boy is already trying elsewhere according to his parents wish 
but I’m not able to move on 


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Anonymous
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I’m emotionally stuck 
n still expect him back

vansh @vansh_010

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If u wanna try once more with him for your satisfaction then u must try otherwise u must move on like there are billions of other men and u will find your future partner

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Anonymous
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Hmm yes

vansh @vansh_010

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So u r gonna try once more?

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Anonymous
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I dunno what’s going to happen in future 
if he comes back I will give a try definitely
but for sure I will not contact him from my side 


vansh @vansh_010

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Di acc to me noow you should stop remembering him and i think u should move on and if future mai parents ka decision badal ta h or if future mai ap dono itne capable ho jate ho ki bina kisi ke influence ke decision le sko toh woh phir app PE depend krta h but for now u should move on and try to find someone else

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Anonymous
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Hmm tbanks

vansh @vansh_010

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Anonymous
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It will take time to recover myself

vansh @vansh_010

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Yes that’s the most toughest part but when u pass this phase u will definitely find happiness

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Anonymous
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Hmm yes

vansh @vansh_010

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