My best friend leads a completely normal life, he has a girlfriend and has stopped talking with me suddenly for a reason and meanwhile I’m here being alone, I dont have anything in my life I’ve achieved and I feel im just going to be a nobody in my life, people wont think about me unless they need something from me. I want to live a life of substance, I just dont know what it is yet. That’s my rant , thank you.
Hey there! I don’t think there is such a thing as a ‘normal’ life. Everyone’s reality is mired with all sorts of problems that we are probably completely unaware of. This is why it is very important to measure growth by keeping our own lives as the metric and try our best not to compare our happiness and reality with other people.
What according to you is substance?
The bitter truth is everyone is selfish, even you and me.
If you look closely it’s always something that you need from someone.
Either its emotional support, entertainment, work, or money. There’s always something. But it doesn’t have to be negative.
Believe me, unless and until you want to be happy, you won’t be happy.
Remember life is a game of balance.
If you won’t be sad then you won’t appreciate being happy.
There is lot of techniques to divert from past if u need then…