My best friend is getting more and more critical of me each passing day, like she’d try to find negatives in everything i do, like even the littlest of things. She was never like this before but now it’s like she’s frustrated of me. I cant even tell her what’s bothering me anymore, i can’t tell her the things she does that bother or hurt me because she’d somehow put it on me. She’s even said stuff to me that’s hurt me and she didn’t even bother apologizing for it.
Is she even my best friend anymore? I love her to bits but this stuff really bothers me and is an additional baggage when i am already going through so much in life. As much as i love people calling me out for valid reasons, i do feel that i deserve a little sympathy and sensitivity because i give that to people, i am never rude to anyone. If anyone needs my help, i sincerely help them. I don’t know what have i done to deserve this.
My best friend had become like that
She wouldn’t even call
See my messages until its too late(i mean days)
When she did pick up my calls behaved like nothing wrong happned .
We used to talk everyday
And we didn’t let each other be left on seen
And as i was been frustrated by her actions
I said that to her
And stopped talking to her for few days
I realised to see a pattern from there on
When ever she needed a favour or help then only she called or messaged
When she wanted to talk about her problems
She would msg me to call
And being stupid everytime i did.
But when it was about my problems
Me getting somekind of help
She would either stop seeing my texts and lates delete them without seeing
And about calls she wouldn’t pick up my calls when she dosent have some work for me
Yeah i did what needed to be done
Stayed hell out of her life
And when she tried to come back into it again
Kicked her out of my life
It has been months since i have talked to her
She had me totally in her control and i used to adore her
Until she drained my patience
Yeah i said some bad things and ended after all the confrontations
She felt bad but i had stopped caring
I blocked her
I have never saw her eversince
My story is very similar to yours. She once did not reply to me for whole 24 hours and that kind of piss me off, and i started to reply to her text like in an angry tone and she calls me out for “hurting her unnecessarily”, i told her are you sure you’re the one getting hurt and it’s not the other way around and then started giving out all kinds of explanations.
I would just like to say
That
You would have to leave her eventually
So started phasing her out of your life
If you want someone to tslk to i am always here
We can connect if you want
