My best friend and I have been friends for, letās say 5 years but we no longer attend the same school. And when we talk itās natural and it feels like nothing has changed. But it has sheās growing as a person and so am I and thereās no issue with that. But my problem is, the last time I talked to her I told her that I felt lonely and had nobody to talk to. And she told me that she was having diner and sheāll be done in about 30 minutes and then weāll talk.So, I waited and waited and waited and finally she didnāt message so I went to sleep. And the icing on the cake was the fact that she was online and was posting statusā like she usually does.
What hurts the other is that I always make her a priority and wherever sheās hurting or just needs someone Iām always there and I make sure of that, but I donāt feel as if sheās there for me, you know?
And weāre even over opposites sheās an extrovert and I prefer to keep to myself. She has billions of friends and I only have a few that call my true friends.
I honestly do not know what to think, but it did hurt and sometimes I feel like Iām dragging her down and sheās only friends with me for the sake of it.
What should I do?
I get uā¦but people are just like thatā¦telling u to not expect anything is easy ā¦but I know making it is really hardā¦but I just want to say that āNo matter how hard you try people always place u where they want to and not where you deserve to beāā¦so if you want to be with her try out but not at the cost of ur peaceā¦Let goā¦itās gonna b fine somedayš¤
Honestly, unintentionally sometimes we have so many thoughts we forget to call back. Itās true because this has happened with me as well. Itās not because I care less for my friends or family but itās unintentional. Donāt let this one incident mar years of your friendship. Focus your energy on things that you like doing. Itāll all fall into place.
