I feel every child with a past will feel this to a t. It is difficult growing up in a chaotic environment.It gives you no stability, structure or joy. Our inner childs really do deserve a huge hug for going through what they did at a young age with no guidance. I do believe, however, as adults, that we have the ability to reparent ourselves and nurture the starving child within. I do not think that our personalities die, it simply manifests as a wounded ego that lashes out.

Hey… It is definitely hard for the kids who suffered it. Definitely they would have feel so suffocated and helpless. Every child needs your love affection and so much of support. 
Spread love.

How rough must that be on those kids.

I guess not just abusive parents but also overprotective parents