Missing my ex. Seems like he’s doing very very good. And I’m in the dumps. Physical ailments, mentally not good, socially isolated. I gave him too much power over me and now I’m lost. Completely destroyed. It’s been 3 yrs. Still I am not doing good so please don’t tell me time heals. I gave my all, I was all in but I really don’t know how to half love someone. I have been punishing myself and facing its consequences. I wanna run back to him cz I feel lost and he was my comfort. My logical side knows it’s not what it is but my emotions can’t catch up. I’m torn between the extremes. I need help. It’s starting to feel like I’m the loser and he wins despite harassing me and troubling me alott. The villian is winning and I’m just doomed.
It has been so long and you still miss him. There is nothing hing wrong in this but all he wanted was th seperation from you… let him be happy. I know it is hard for you, but you should let someone in your life… it will give you a bit relax when someone will try to make you feel special…
Actually I had to let him go he wanted to stay but as he did some things which cannot be overlooked I had to break up and tbh I’m seeing someone and I do love that guy but uk we are not that serious and busy with our lives so it just is a lil complicated I guess. And the thoughts of my ex really don’t allow me to take it ahead
I understand. I don’t know what happened between you. But if he did wrong and wanted to stay, then he realised and you were just forced to take the action of letting him go. Sometimes, letting go is not an option …
But uk i gave him 1000 chances. He did things like harassment, breaking my phone, divulging my secrets in anger, threatening me and forcing me to stay. He said sorry and begged but did those things again when things didn’t go his way…so uk i don’t think holding on was the right thing to do. I had to let him go knowing that he was the love of my life.
I know girl. You know the person we love hurts us alot. And same you got.yoi accepted all his flaws… his bad things… and now after times, you are missing him because of the moments you both created… and what is pulling towards him is not him, it is your feelings of happiness, and memories and the attachments you both had. Now there is no going back. So you must focus on someone else… things will not be same but I assure you that things will be far better than previous.
I get what ur saying is true. But my heart doesn’t believe it. It feels I’m never gonna have that feeling of happiness that kinda love ever again. I’m just gonna be heartbroken all my life. I don’t want anyone else I wanted him and i really gave my all to make it work. Now I don’t know anything anymore.
I get you girl. But you can’t get him back… and just try to be friends with people. And someone who will like you and make you happy will be th person you will need in your life. Ant you are right you can’t get those feelings back but you can develop the bond of life which will last long with someone. It is what you require now…
It’s like i can get him back. He’s just one text away and that’s what is making it very difficult uk. Cz my mind knows it’s not healthy for you but my emotions want to go back my heart is longing for love for comfort and the embrace. So I said I’m torn between the extremes. And the fact that I’m making this choice of staying away from him just makes it worse. It wud be different if he chested or broke up himself or it was mutual. Here I’m accountable for breaking for taking his love of his life away from him and also mine. So my heart and brain are at war. Beating each other up. Debating as to why they’re right. And I can’t have it anymore
Well listen to your heart now. as per my opinion it is now matter of yoir heart. so do what it says. Mind will tell you about benefits and heart will tell your happiness… just call him once. Things will be different but yoir peace will be with you after this.
I call him n what? What do I say??? No yrr it’s not that simple. I’m seeing someone. And he might too. I don’t think it’s the right thing to do even if I’m craving to do it
There is nothing wrong in that… just a simple HI will work girl… just say hi how are you… that enough to get a start… once you started with this and now again start with this… believe me nothing will happen he will reply you and start to talk.
Won’t it be cheating with the one I’m seeing
This is not cheating… he might not have same bind which he had with you. So there is nothing wrong. Just say hi how are you… it has been long since we talked. Common talks and then you will soon get your answer… talking is not cheating at all… so go and talk yr. If anything happens, i am here to listen to you… just do it. 👍
I don’t think it’s right thing to do😂😭😭ek kaam kro tum text krlo yarr meko as bhejna
Mera bandi hoti tohe kar bhi chuka hota 😆😆😆 in fact mene Kiya bhi hai 😆😆🤣🤣 4 saal baad text… lekin uski shadi ho gayi🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ye dekho😂😂😂😂 kya yarr nhi kr sakti text m, jeher kha leti hu usse achha
Ajeeb ladki ho yr… Agar mere paas tumhara phone hota toh me hi kr deta… if i was your friend then… Ek text nahi kiya jaa rha yr… kya yaar tum bhi… self respect ko maaro goli kon sa upar lekr jaaoge… kar do ek text… mzaa aayega. Strange feelings aayegi😆😆😆
😏😏tum bas maze lene aye ho yaha. Achhi advice nhi h ye. Self respect hi jyada imp hoti h 😒😒 aur m nhi cheat kr sakti yrr
Kasam se yar… tum ho badi choosy… dikh gya mujhe ye😆😆😆 ek hi life milk hai usme bhi cheat self respect flana flana daal kar khraab kar rhe ho… Kabhi is baat dil ki sun lo last dimag ki sun li thi na… result dekh liya… ab dil ki sun kar kuchh achha kar lo… 😁😁😁
Abeyy yarr Dil ki suni thi isliye toh itna suffer Kiya itne threatening aur harassment jhele chances de deke us chapadganju ko ab life atleast shant to h. Koi mere ko dhamki toh nhi dera na. Aur tumko chalega kya koi tumhe cheat kre m kyu us bichare achhe ladke ko cheat kru for someone jisne mera jeena haram kr diya
Thik hai madam ji… aap jesa chal rha hai wesa hi chlaa lijiye fir 😆😆😆 or baat sahi hai apki. But baat karne me koi cheating nahi hoti me toh abhi bhi yahi kahunga😂😂😂😂
🥲🥲🥲thik h
Koi dikkat pade toh yaad kar lena yahi… ese hi aur bhi suggestion ke liye… 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 jo ki tum nahi loge dobara mujhse😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 suggestions ki tumko jarurat h bhai👀meko cheat krne ka suggestion de rahe ho
Are yar… tum bhi na… Cheat nahi hota isme… baat karne se cheating hone lagi toh fir ho gya kaam… i said baat kar lo… lekin nahi tum nahi karoge baat cheating hogi🤣🤣🤣 topper the kya class me 😂😂😂😂
Nahi😒 baat krne se cheating nhi hoti but ex k sath baat krne se cheating hoti h
Meri baat maan lo madam… ex se baat karna cheating nahi hoti… ex ek esa insaan hai jo sab jaante huye bhi aaj stranger hai… to stranger se baat me cheating thodi hai😁😁😁 or mujhe fayda isse ye dekho… me toh chahta hu aap bus apne mann ki kar lo… thoda sa khush ho jaao dil dhadka lo thoda apna fir se. 😆😆
😂😂😂 you’re that bad influence friend. But achha h ye negative psychology kaam arhi h. The more ur telling me to text the more I’m getting convinced that I shudnt. Kaafi tedhi hu jo krne ko bologe woh nhi krungi😂😂
Haa toh isi me hai… jab koi na maane or use mnaaye apni baat🤣🤣🤣🤣 lekin ziddi bahoot ho tum yr…
Ziddi toh hu yrr 😂
Jyada hi ho🤣🤣🤣🤣 akele ho tum jo meri baat nahi maan rhe…🤣🤣🤣 mzaa aaya…😆😆
😂😂😂😂aisa galat advice kaise Maan lu yarr🥲🥲ex ko text krne ko kon kehta h bhai.
I know sab bolenge kat karo… Ye… wo… flana flana. But me dil jodne ki sochta hu😆😆😆 tod to duniya wese bhi deti hai😂😂😂😂
Galat logo se dil nhi jodna chahiye. Duniya jaise dikhti waise nhi hoti na. It’s like you shouldn’t drink poison just because ur thirsty.
Aur tum bada bolre mujhe poison peene ko🥲🥲 kya Khushi milegi tumko mereko maar k Haan? Kahin mere ex toh nhi tum👀👀
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 are nahi me tumhara ex nahi hu… thik hai ab tumhare liye me tumhe usse baat karne ko nahi kahunga…😂😂😂😂 isse tumhe jyada shanti milegi🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shukriya 🥲🥲🥲
Jaao anonymous… Jee lo apni zindgi… khush raho… maze karo… Ab mat kehna tum khush nahi ho 😂😂😂😂 wrna majbooran mujhe suggest karna pdega tumhe🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nhi tumhare suggestions bade khtarnakk h, m nhi bilkul riks lungi re baba😂😂
Dekh lo bahoot kak log milenge tumhe mere jese jo tumhare baare me jyada sochenge…🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lekin itna bura suggestion nahi tha🤣🤣🤣
Trust me, bhot bura tha😒
🥲🥲🥲🥲 Gazab bejjati hai…🥲🥲
Mat do aise suggestions, poison peene ke😒😒
Thik hai mam… jesa aap kaho… zehar nahi pine denge tumhe ab… chai pilayenge 😆😆
Ye hui na baat😂😂 but thank you so much it was relieving talking to you, made me laugh❤️😂uk sense of humour hi Satya h iss duniya ka baki sab moh maya h
So you think ki mera sense of humour achha hai🤣🤣🤣🤣 well i liked to talk to you… 😊😊😊😊
Hahahah yes it was pleasure talking to you 😁
Thanks for your time… you are a nice person and genuine as well… keep this behaviour always girl. 😊😊😊 Good luck for you future and wish you will always be happy 😊😊😊😊
Thanks alott for reaching out and helping me! Wanted to talk about it and it helped alott. All the best to you too! Stay happy and blessed always 🥰
Heloo
Hii… how are you???
Not good🥲🥲still craving to text him
Toh kar do fir… sochna kesa. Ek baar try kar lo yr… mann hai toh… socho mat HI ka msg drop kar do use…
Fir meko pehle breakup krna padega Jo abhi h usse🥲🥲ya fir usko batana padega ki maine text Kiya usko🥲🥲
Meko lagta m barbaad ho chuki hu 3 saal hogye yarrr! Bachpan m devdas meko hutiya laga tha ab lgra m khud sach m devdas ban gyi hu🥲🥲🥲
Yr… tumhari dikkat ye hai ki tum extra soch rhe ho… kabhi kabhi khud ke liye humko kuchh esa karna padta hai jo kisi ko btaya nahi jaa skta… so tum bhi kar do… kuchh to secrets rakho yar life me… kal ko ese hi mar jaaoge toh mzaa nahi aayega😂😂😂😂😂
Yarr🥺😔😔bilkul achha nhi lgra hai meko aur text krne k baad aur bhi bura lgega, usko pata h I’m seeing someone kya kru fir text karke woh meri hi hatai krega yrr. Maine apni self respect ka gala ghot diya h idhr tumko hasi Ari🥲🥲 main Aisa aadmi ko kaise crave kr sakti jisne meko suicidal bana diya tha yrr
Connect krte hai yar… waha discuss karte h. real Id se comment kr do. Then let’s talk in private agar tumhe trust ho mujhpe…
Done
I understand what you are going through. I’m currently navigating those emotions myself. I hope you’ll find that one person or thing in life that really makes you happy. I know it’s hard but believe in yourself.
Tbh I have no hope. I am tired. I need comfort and it’s him. I have been fighting this alone since three years and I think I’m running out of strength. It’s killing me.
I get what you mean. Sometimes it’s easier to just think about going back but always remember you left for a reason. The good memories outway the negative ones but trust that you’ll feel comfortable again.
It’s been 3yrs🥲🥲 I don’t think it’s working for me. I feel deserted lost stuck and everything bad.
Heartbreak almost feels like you’ve broken yourself and you’ll never pick up the pieces. You could write some things down about what you liked about him, and try to find those qualities in someone else. Just a thought.
It’s been 3 yrs. I could publish a book soo much I have written. Did everything I could journaling distractions even seeing someone. All in vain. My feelings for him are still rock solid
Hey, listen ik its the worst feeling i just felt the exact same way when my gf broked up with me and i still feel the same as you are feeling. Ik time doesn’t heal anything it just gives us the power to bear that pain.
Im its hard very hard for u to go through that phase. And these are some topics which u cant even share with everyone.
I am also a victim of these thoughts ik how much it hurts and how it feels. But you just need to accept that he was not worth it.
And one more thing i am a believer of god and read this quote somewhere - god heard what u didn’t heard.
I understand all that still I crave him. Even though he was hella toxic still wanna go back to him text him n ask him to take care of me. Cz I can’t do it anymore
Listen i also want to text my gf to take care of me. I am also fed up of everything but if god removed them from our lifes then there has to be a reason for it.
My gf was my happiness my rsn to smile my everything.
I loved her more than anything. I loved her more than my family. Each n every second i used to think about her. Her happiness. She was the person i want to get married for the rest of my life. N at this point i am so fed up of her becoz what she did to me was not at all expected from her.
🥲🥲I totally get you yarr…what happened between you guys?
Damn that was so pure. You formed the emotions that I had in my mind. I can tell you really cared for her.
Yes i really did more than anything in this world. I was ready to do anything for her. Idk will i be able to love anyone else like her becoz the way i loved her and the way she broked me…
Dont want to share at this platform.
If we will chat personally then i will.
Btw whats ur age may i ask?
I’m 23, you?
22. Lets talk over on any other platform. A little bit more private? If u like…
Share your id
Which one ?
Michael @mmerlihan
Like the ID on the app
I replied with the platform but they put it under review. Share your id of the most common social media platform😂 guess it now
goodboy @kartikmangal
Oh ok got it
goodboy @kartikmangal
I am the on who asked ur age
Two people replied. Which one is which I’m confused now
Michael @mmerlihan
Not me, I’m the one who was talking earlier.
Yeah me too
Hey you gone?
Hey dude, sorry for how you are feeling , but you just can’t make someone fall for you , I know it’s sad but what isn’t, right?
I think the problem here seems to be the acceptance…I think acceptance is the most crucial thing , if you accept the fact that he is not with you instead of imagining that he should be here, I know you will be fine , u r a warrior.
And remember it’s OK to feel sad
Yeah the reality is too harsh for me to accept, it’s like i need him. More than anything rn. I’m literally craving for his one text one call one comfort
That’s where you are making yourself suffer, trust I’ve been there.
You can fall in a deep pit if you don’t accept your life as it is going.
If you have tried everything in your power then it’s OK…its ok if you dont win every fight…just spend more time with your family, there is no way that man could have loved you like your family would…
Just accept yourself , accept the fact and trust me you will be really fine
Well he did loved me good🥲🥲 come from a toxic household so not really emotionally close to anyone. That’s why I’m suffering he really gave me a place which no one else gave but like it came with conditions it was all good as long as things went his way
Does he wanna come back to you??
Yea
Aditya @hoosierdaddy
Then where is the problem?? You also want him, he also wants to come back to you
He was toxic
Aditya @hoosierdaddy
Then he doesn’t deserve all this …you shouldn’t degrade your health for a guy like that
My heart doesn’t understand that
I know making your own heart understand something is the most difficult thing, but life is the definition of a series of complex and difficult things, right??
And people can overcome it, and when I say this I am saying truth
Trust me I ve been through all this…and how got out of I was through accepting the facts…and focusing on myself
I’m. Focusing on myself but just becoming bitter why he’s doing better than me and why am I suffering when it shud be reverse. Why good people suffer
Always just think about it this way
Can you do something about it, if you can then do it
If you can’t, then just accept the fact that you can’t and you have done everything in your power.
I’m telling you again and again acceptance is the biggest thing and the best thing
Yes i think this helped. You’re right cannot change which is out of control I shud focus on what I can. I was just being a baby i guess whining but just sometimes u get tired of being strong and alone for too long. Needed some comfort some comforting words. Thanks. And uk it’s like not really close to anyone to talk about it or feels anyone wud understand cz my friends know what he did so uk they kinda ridicule me for missing him and they’re right abt that but just sometimes u need someone to see it from ur perspective na. Like ik he did bad things but isn’t everyone bad? Everybody messes up doesn’t mean we just stop loving them right. But its also important that I love myself more than I love him but that doesn’t come easy to me. Always been loyal to other even at the cost of losing myself
Aditya @hoosierdaddy
You are so strong ,
U know I heard somewhere " you can love someone and still you can let them go"
And that is the bravest thing one can do
And I am soo proud of you …and obviously of you ever need to talk I’m here
Yes that is true. It’s really the toughest thing to do, to walk away from your love your happiness. Thank you soo much, I’ll reach out. Thank you for reaching out and taking out time to help
Aditya @hoosierdaddy
Obviously
Take care 🌸
