me m18 want to ask out my crush f18 but she’s just left a long term damaging reelationship and idk what to do. because i do like her as the more time ive spent chatting to her the more i like her. also her ex bf was my ex friend.
help appreciated
Don’t approach
Wait for the right timing
🚩 @shivaaymalusare
If you truly love her, be there for her during this phase without making any moves. Approaching her right now might not be the best idea, as she is likely dealing with complicated emotions. If you approach her, she might say yes simply because, at this stage, everyone seeks someone to lean on. That wouldn’t be love, it would be dependency. Over time, that dependency will fade, and once she’s healed, the relationship might end, or she might say no directly, which could permanently damage the bond between you.
In both scenarios, you risk losing her. Instead, focus on being a good friend to her. If feelings naturally develop on her end, that’s great, and you can move forward into a relationship. But if those feelings don’t develop, accept it and move on while maintaining your friendship.
