Me and my guy have been dating for 8 years. We haven’t been physically intimate for last 6 months. Recently, after 6 months, we got intimate and during the physical intimacy I got aggressive and used my nails to hold him tighter without realising. He stopped and said it hurt and it’s a put off and I should be gentle whereas in the past he always wanted me to be aggressive. Where does this put our relationship? Should I take an offence? Should I feel bad about my nails? Should I take it as my fault? Could it mean he’s not attracted and he realised it mid way? I can’t tell anymore it’s like I don’t know him.