Me and my gf of 4 years broke up back in November from a long distance relationship and lack of effort on my part we both graduate college this may and have the door open to get back together but I’m worried that the people we are with in between will pull us apart again or make us look at each other differently, she is very adamant about wanting to wait until after we graduate, have jobs, and she’s traveled and I feel like I am just waiting for her most of the time. I am unsure how I should feel about the situation we both have a lot of love for each other still but I feel like we could make it work if we tried again sooner rather than later. I don’t know how feel most of the time and need some guidance or opinions on the matter.
Norlan Silva @vanitas
You can do whatever you want to. You van wait for her if you truly want to, or you can go out and explore and discover new things and new people and maybe someone who you click with even better than her. You have a lot of time, I’m sure these feelings are genuine, for the both of you, but you deserve to be happy. So just try and do what makes you happy. But don’t be upset whether she finds someone new or you do, thats just life and you need to accept it
