Me and my boyfriend have relationship of one year now. His parents are little cool with it, they haven’t meet me yet but still they are okay with his son having gf (P.S we both are 19 years old ) but my parents are little strict. Still i told my mom about my relationship she said first complete studies don’t focus on anything else. Which i can understand she’s worried about my future. I’m not that poor student though I’m little more than average. But still she isn’t accepting my relationship. And the thing is that my boyfriend is going abroad next year for further studies so before that i want my family to be okay with it. Any suggestions what i can do ? Should i wait till studies get over ?
Unknown @anushka
Honestly, You should complete your studies and be financially independent first. Parents will accept once you will a bit stable.
Saying this cause I’ve experienced this thing…
Yes I know i should wait but my boyfriend is going abroad and it’s important to tell our parents about us. And yes we could wait till he returns but he’s going to settle there. So he might only return for couple of months after study visa gets over.
Unknown @anushka
Your parents must be thinking you are too young to commit and not serious about it.
So,You both should wait. If y’all all Extremely serious then work out the long distance till you both are financially stable.
Yeah thank you 😊
Prabhakar M N @mnpsatan13
Your boyfriend is going abroad for his higher studies. He has his priorities right. Please ask yourself if you have your priorities right.
My priorities are also clear. While he will be abroad I’ll be studying my master’s and then hopefully get a job when he’s return. The problem is my parents who don’t want me to get in relationship. My mom knows that I’ve bf but she don’t talk much about it. And also don’t give me permission to go somewhere (public place) alone with him.
When people go to Abroad, they change. So before you make your parents okay with it, wait for another years to be sure you have something to make them agree to.
