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Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend had huge fight about his past relationship.I accused him of something and he got furious. In that anger he tried to shut me by pushing me and told me foul gali.I ended things then and there. We had fights before where he raised his voice but i forgave him. But this time i thought it was too much. After some time when his anger settled he is crying and asking me to come back everyday . I don’t know what to do now. Shall i forgive him or just leave.

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Anonymous

The fights are common. You just have to make sure it’s doesn’t get worse

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Satakshi M. @satakshi_mish...

Fights happen in every relationship, which is okay. Having insecurities, trust issues is also okay. But at the same time being physical (any partner being physically violent) is NEVER okay. Shouldn’t be okay or normalised.
I’m a counselling psychologist, reach out incase you’d want 🌸

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Anonymous

From a 3rd person perspective recall if both ur problems afterall according to what u said he’s asking u to come back meaning he may deep feelings for u. Well the final decision is upto yourself.

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Anonymous

Don’t ever forgive him, if one can’t control his anger while dealing with his or her closed members then trust me you will even get slapped in future

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Anonymous

If it’s a pattern then think about it…

Anonymous

Yeahh.
And see if he’s learning and changing or just repeating same mistakes, even if that’s not okay with you.

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