Me and my best friend are having feelings for the same guy… I know that she likes him, so I am trying my best to not feel anything for him, because I can’t betray my best friend.he doesn’t know have any idea about our feelings and consider both of us as just friends.I can’t even share this thought, that I have started to feel for him, with anyone.
You are such a good frnd to have !!
Why both of u dont confess to him nd let him decide if he has feeling for anyone of u or not ?
Heyyyyy its completely natural and common for best friends to have crush on same guy… Yesss Its really common.
Don’t feel bad, don’t hold back. He is not in relationship with either of you .right!
So talk to ur bestie, tell her. N seriously you both gonna have great tym, 🤭both of you can talk about him.
(so many fans have crush on celebrities, we never feel bad or hold back cuz of it… right)!
After reading your post I jst felt like sharing my story. You might feel better.
I (A) transferred to new a school in 7th standard, along with me anothr girl (B) also came from previous school, but we were in different sections. Then a new girl © came mid section. So we all 3 girls were just acquitance/classmates nthng else.
8th standard… for some project we were together in a group along with a guy, n guess what gradually we all 3 got crush on him, We 3 use to talk about him alot (yeah crazy kids) 😅like seriously whole school tym, 3 of us staring at him talkng abt him… n guess wht this bought us 3 close!
We became besties (most famous bestie group of school), later on all of us , one by one confessd our feeling to him.😂😂He rejected all 3. But seee thts not sad, nor heartbreak cuz we got each other.
Now after 12years we 4 r great frndz, n we 3 r still besties.
That’s really amazing.but my best friend already hates anyone, trying to hit on him. She will feel betrayed if I do so
Hey wanna talk it we can talk in a private space (means talking privately ) where you can tell me everything and it will be safe and I wanna help you
