Me and my best friend are having feelings for the same guyā¦ I know that she likes him, so I am trying my best to not feel anything for him, because I canāt betray my best friend.he doesnāt know have any idea about our feelings and consider both of us as just friends.I canāt even share this thought, that I have started to feel for him, with anyone.
You are such a good frnd to have !!
Why both of u dont confess to him nd let him decide if he has feeling for anyone of u or not ?
Heyyyyy its completely natural and common for best friends to have crush on same guyā¦ Yesss Its really common.
Donāt feel bad, donāt hold back. He is not in relationship with either of you .right!
So talk to ur bestie, tell her. N seriously you both gonna have great tym, š¤both of you can talk about him.
(so many fans have crush on celebrities, we never feel bad or hold back cuz of itā¦ right)!
After reading your post I jst felt like sharing my story. You might feel better.
I (A) transferred to new a school in 7th standard, along with me anothr girl (B) also came from previous school, but we were in different sections. Then a new girl Ā© came mid section. So we all 3 girls were just acquitance/classmates nthng else.
8th standardā¦ for some project we were together in a group along with a guy, n guess what gradually we all 3 got crush on him, We 3 use to talk about him alot (yeah crazy kids) š
like seriously whole school tym, 3 of us staring at him talkng abt himā¦ n guess wht this bought us 3 close!
We became besties (most famous bestie group of school), later on all of us , one by one confessd our feeling to him.ššHe rejected all 3. But seee thts not sad, nor heartbreak cuz we got each other.
Now after 12years we 4 r great frndz, n we 3 r still besties.
Thatās really amazing.but my best friend already hates anyone, trying to hit on him. She will feel betrayed if I do so
Hey wanna talk it we can talk in a private space (means talking privately ) where you can tell me everything and it will be safe and I wanna help you
