LOW !! DULL !!
Hi i am 31 yrs old mother of one daughter.I am from small city & now settled in Noida from last 7 yrs.Before marriage i have gone through many rough phases.From beginning I have no aim in my life (like career wise) bt after marriage now I wanted to work in fact I was earning before my daughter.Mow with one of my colleague I have started working in his organisation.
Problem is from last 1 yr I am working with him without any salary(as he just startrd his company & he is from not very rich family) so he have some financial issues.2-3months before we shipped some of our orders & our buyer has not paid him completely.
Now its our 2nd season he wants me to help his new set up & he will clear my all pending dues asap.But now my husband is saying NO to me for work.He is saying why u want to work in free??
I told my husband that he will pay me asap also I have only 2-3 months after that I will sit at home & will do baby sitting(bcz my daughters care taker will soon be going her Hometown for months).I convinced my mother in law so she agreed or else I can say she supported me but my husband re is not happy with me at all.
Today in morning I asked him to drop me to office he refused & asked me to go by myself.Istarted crying.
I alway feel that I don’t earn much money.Initially I didn’t wanted to work but now cant sit at home.
slo my husband wants me to start business with him, but I know we cant work together.😞😣😐😑
Hi, I am sorry you are going through this situation right now. Thank you for sharing this. I would say that please try to figure out what exactly you want. If you want to work in the organisation you are currently even without pay and if that is what makes you happy, then so be it. If you want to be at home, that’s also okay. If you want to join your husband’s business, that’s also okay. Sometimes, it’s not about the money but about inner happiness and satisfaction. Try to figure out which work will give you most peace and happiness and then try and talk to your husband about it. Tell him reasons about why you chose what you chose and ask him to try and understand your point of view. If your mother in law is okay with taking care of your daughter and you can work, then please do so. Don’t let anything stop you from going after what you like to do! All the best :)
