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@this_sucks_

β€œLooks change but personality doesn’t”.

This statement is the biggest lie humanity propagates.
It takes years and years of aging or a drastic accident to significantly alter how you look.
On the other hand, your personality, attitude and general mindset and constantly changing.

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You can’t change a controlling person, narcissistic, someone with anger issues, someone who was never taught to help with things, always dominating. This sentence is mostly used while choosing a partner when people consider looks over everything while thinking they can change a person. Domestic violence and murder happens for this mindset of change. Sorry for making it horrible for you but that what it actually means

@this_sucks_
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It isnt. Everyone can be disciplined, everyone can be taught and everyone can be traumatized. Our experiences change our personality. Personality isnt permanent. I dont know why you have trouble admitting it, or why you are just considering the dating aspect of it, but I can say you are being extremely delusional if you say a persons experiences dont affect his personality

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

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Not just personality, everything changes every time… What doesn’t change seizes to live.

@this_sucks_
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A persons conscience never changes. But people hardly think of conscience when looking for a partner, because everyone is expected to have it.

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

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You started with looks and personality… Can you give me an example…

@this_sucks_
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Looks take years to fade. But a single rejection can change your personality.

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

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Give me an example of conscience…

@this_sucks_
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Even a tyrant might feel guilty or regretful of his actions

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

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That too could take time…

@this_sucks_
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Perhaps

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

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Not until that human realises it until then that person would continue to do what is right and what is wrong.

Vipul C @lupiv

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I think the line refers to one’s primal side. If you are angry person, you’ll be battling to let go. If you are a nice person who people take advantage of, you will be struggling again.

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