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“Looks change but personality doesn’t”.

This statement is the biggest lie humanity propagates.
It takes years and years of aging or a drastic accident to significantly alter how you look.
On the other hand, your personality, attitude and general mindset and constantly changing.

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You can’t change a controlling person, narcissistic, someone with anger issues, someone who was never taught to help with things, always dominating. This sentence is mostly used while choosing a partner when people consider looks over everything while thinking they can change a person. Domestic violence and murder happens for this mindset of change. Sorry for making it horrible for you but that what it actually means


It isnt. Everyone can be disciplined, everyone can be taught and everyone can be traumatized. Our experiences change our personality. Personality isnt permanent. I dont know why you have trouble admitting it, or why you are just considering the dating aspect of it, but I can say you are being extremely delusional if you say a persons experiences dont affect his personality

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

Not just personality, everything changes every time… What doesn’t change seizes to live.


A persons conscience never changes. But people hardly think of conscience when looking for a partner, because everyone is expected to have it.

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

You started with looks and personality… Can you give me an example…


Looks take years to fade. But a single rejection can change your personality.

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

Give me an example of conscience…


Even a tyrant might feel guilty or regretful of his actions

EkKhoj @ek_khoj

That too could take time…



EkKhoj @ek_khoj

Not until that human realises it until then that person would continue to do what is right and what is wrong.

Vipul C @lupiv

I think the line refers to one’s primal side. If you are angry person, you’ll be battling to let go. If you are a nice person who people take advantage of, you will be struggling again.


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