Literally seeing my best friend replace me with someone else when i am right there. It fucking hurts
Maybe it’s not replacing what you’re thinking about
Then what is it?
People’s priorities do change with time
Theres no priority change at all. The only priority that’s changed is me not being the first one they’d text or call and doing the things they used to do with me, they’re now doing it with someone else
Di you try discussing it?
I have once and it didn’t lead to any conclusion, and i am not gonna do it again because i can’t force anyone to love me
Yes you should not try to force anyone into anything but try to keep the relation healthy for your own peace of mind
Probably yes, but i have no one like that getting even close to that point as of now
Yes, that’s what I am doing for now. I am trying to be myself, behave as i normally do but it makes me upset that she won’t react the same way she used to do and barely spend anytime with me even when she knows how much i actually adore her
You need to try and accept that and also keep healthy relation
I feel you. Something I have been through since class 9. I accepted her as my friend when everyone refused to be her friend when we are kids. But suddenly, due to certain factors which were so superficial, she decided to replace it. Still, she sticked to me till 10th. After that, we changed schools and then she completely forgot me. I used to text her sometimes, to which she sometimes replied or sometimes she kept me on seen. Since last year, I stopped texting her too.
Know your worth and don’t waste time on someone who don’t deserve your time. I have some other friends who are really close to me and I’m so so glad to have them. Tbh, never calling anyone my “best friend” again. The word “friend” is more beautiful than best friend when the friendship has a meaning!
The thing is i don’t really like making many “friends”, i like to keep very few people close to me even if i am talking to a lot of people. I’ll probably get used to the situation at some point, but it fucking hurts as it stands and it’s very hard to come to terms with it.