Life was soo much good before ....even though I had few insecurities that he might breakup with me ...he always made me feel he will never❤️But now I feel he changed a lot 😞all he wants to do is travel with his friends n lead a carefree life forever! Hez confused whether he wants me or not😞 m totally blank that I donno what to do ...should I give him some time or should We just breakup mutually ? Thinking about a breakup really shatters me but At least he will be happy 🙂

Thank you soo much for your valuable advice😊

Hey! I would suggest just give some time maybe he has something on his mind.....but after that time please see that his behaviour is still same or not....just talk to him about this things...if he has something in his mind he will explain.... otherwise you are just wasting your time on a person who doesn't deserve you....but please talk to him and explain things to him clearly afterwards take your decision....have a good day🥰

Long Distance Relationship

Haha mine is more like one of those Stories people wish their life is like in an initial stage... however it sucks later tho. 
I crushed on a guy from tik tok for two years and since the app was banned at my place I started missing watching his videos...so I started following him on ig and always text him..you know those fan girl thirst texts lol..he would laugh at those and just single emoji from his side would make my heart flutter..later after like few months he responded to one of my thirst joke and responds back with his picture on purpose to tease me..me being a dumb human who doesn't like settling down replied back with my pic and started teasing him back..and the relationship between us was never the same after...he thinks I'm hot..I think he's hot.. we've come to a stage where we made a agreement of involving no feelings..until few days when I was watching his videos and grinning from ear to ear.. checking my mobile every second, feelinga sad when he leaves me on seen.. ladies and gentlemen this is where I fucked up. HOW DO I YEET OUT THESE SLIMY STICKY WEIRD THING  CALLED FEELINGS?!!!!

Conflict

Going through a breakup, just cant listen to any songs related to him, it just stings the way he used to make me feel, the way he cared for me and every little thing. It just hurts a lot. I wanted to marry him but his family wont allow because of social stigma. And it seems as if he has already moved on or maybe he is just trying. 5 years of relationship ended SUDDENLY. I cant be with anybody else now, i feel the way he spoiled me like a hero in a movie, it just hurts to even think that he will make his wife feel that way. I feel jealous already.
Cant listen to songs can’t go anywhere just because all the fun adventures we used to do, it all keep coming back. Just cant step out of the house. I just feel him every where in every way !
And the worst part that i feel is, he must be making efforts too, so that he could move on. He must-be trying to make me vanish from his life. I know he loves me too but he gotta listen to his family too.
 It hurts so bad.
Am i being unreasonable or just heartbroken like anyone else ?
Any advice ?

Breakup

Resisting every urge to text you and ask how you are doing and tell you how hard it is to be without you and how much I miss you. I have learnt so many things in life, although some things are still a work-in-progress but I think getting over you is the most difficult thing to do. And I don’t think I’ll be able to do that. 

Life

I am feeling very low for sonetime now. Im having some relationship issues. I love him and he does too, its just he cant give me time. I dont feel like im his priority. He just doesnt have time for me. All he thinks about is his friends and i just constantly feel like a second option to him and i just wanna feel that way anymore. I am tired of feeling this way. I really dont know what to do , how to tell him. 

Relationships

I am having like mini anxiety rn. The guy I am interested in said he'll call but he didn't and I can't even text him about it. It'll look desperate.

Happy

So there's this guy who told me had a crush on me but now he is saying that he doesn't want to be in a relationship.
The reasoning he provided is as follows:-
yk well..
u see how we are rn right?
CHill always having fun and like we aint have anything between us to make ourselves
awkward...
BUT
Once I have a psychological image of u as my girfriend I would never ever see 
u the way I see u rn.
Same goes with you.
It ends the non-awkward feeling and I feel like once we in a relationship
we wont even talk like we talk rn.
Like u would never talk/have fun/spend time with ur boyfriend like you would
with ur friend...
and tbh people are more open towards friends than their partners.
Now a question may arise why did I make it clear bw us?
That was just to have a clear idea on how we both feel bout each other.
Cause once we truly know we both love each other 
there is no need of a tag of couples and all that shit.
Like bro... these tags are only for other people to know 
 we know how we both feel bout each other then why go and add ranks 
to it. Like I know u love me... You know I love you...
Why else should we tell anyone else if we love each other or not?
its clear between us and that's what matters..
Idk if it makes sense for u
but that is how I feel...
like relationships ends the essence of being a friend and having fun
thats what  I dont wanna loose


This is what he sent me. I don't have a crush on him or i like or love him. 
I sent this here just to get what are your views 

Crush

I am confusing. My willingness doesn't align to the words I say and I'm aware of that. It's too early to tell. It's too early to be sure. What if this is a false hope? He's just the way I wanted. He's too good to be true. If I acknowledge the fact that I like him, there's no turning back. But what if I messed this up again? I swear I'll never ask what ifs again but I'm here asking it multiple times a day. We're okay. We're so good with each other. We understand each other. We talk almost about everything under the sun. He is consistent. He knows what he wants. He gives me assurance. He gives me hope. But what if the external factors started to come in? First of all, we're on the same team. It's not really 'forbidden' but it's considered as conflict of interest especially that I'm one-level higher than him. Second is, it's only almost two months after they break up. I thought of this as a harmless friendship and dare because I really have no intentions and now all I want is to be considerate on the other party. But I'm only causing confusion because I wouldn't accept the fact that I am doing this because I'm into him. I'm giving him a hard time and it's not like I'm testing him, bc I'm not, but there's no sign of him giving up or walking away. I'm a difficult person because unlike him, I can't see the difference between what I want and my just-go-with-the-flow personality. I'm so comfortable with him I don't think of even saying 'no'. Yet what I'm really afraid of is leaving. Him getting tired of my nonsense and me walking away because of disappointment. Being alone is okay. But being alone after being with someone is a whole different level. The barriers I've set only hurt him as the days go by. I know we're taking it step by step and he's not rushing me, no one is. It's hard for me and he knows that but I have to be real on myself and stand up for what I show and feel. I'm trying to open up, to accept the fact and I hope that when the time comes that I can fully embrace his offer, I hope that I'm not late, at least not too late.

Boyfriend

Can brahmins marry kayastha?
My BF is brahmin and he says that his family wont allow me and accept me to marry him cuz his caste is higher then mine and there cant be inter-caste marriage. His mom also doesnt likes me, but he says this weird stuff that, he will marry another girl (above my caste) but will also be with me which i feel isnt fair to both of us (me and his future wife).

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