Life is a series of endless battles. You win some, you lose some. However, in order to win a war, you do not need to win all the battles, only the most important ones. 

Agree. And never lose hope if you lose one but get back with better skills .

Life

is there really someone for everyone?

I don't about this platform, but choose here to vent , Yeah from the day of becoming a person, mature one it's a part of me always telling me that life is not just only surviving, there's much more, but the thing is from the childhood to now even after knowing these Ted talks, all I have ever did is just surviving still now and nothing else and it's getting tough day by day with this survival game.....

Anxiety

All the thing is described in my @ name ... 

Here it is. I’m from Belgium and left for Japan where I my husband lived. I left my family and country for him. We married one year after I’ve got in Japan. I was 20 he was 27. 

I waited almost 7 years to have à proper wedding, that’s was a total disaster. 
The place where we made the wedding delayed a lot the hair set trial and make up. Finally we found out that the hair and make up artist couldn’t even don’t a simple ponytail not a proper liner wing. 
I had to don’t my hair and make myself the day of my wedding ... can you believe it ...? The day you’re supposed to be taken care of.. 
my husband spent the whole ceremony talking to his friend, he didn’t looked at me once not told me I was beautiful. He just told me «  yah your hair and make up is same than usual » YEAH ?! Maybe because I had to do it myself looser !!! 
He decided that we would arrived together at the guest room ... so no bride walk for me... I felt like he wanted all the spotlight on him ... 
he didn’t even put the ring on my finger ... the wedding staff forgot to make us sign the wedding no agreement paper which was the most important part for me .... 
how come ??? I spent all my money on this wedding and I feel like it was the worst day of my life ... it’s been over a Year now but I’m still making nightmare about it and feel so depressed... I feel like I will never have a proper wedding ... it was the dream of my life now I’m 27 and feel so old.. Sometimes I’m even thinking of getting a divorce even tho I love my husband just to get a proper nice wedding ... 

Marriage

I think it's finally time for me to Stop searching for her outside, in roads, in streets, in crowds everywhere.... and accept the fact that she left me and she ain't coming back.

Breakup

When it comes to relationships you shouldn’t be following any advice just like that. Rather, imbibe these golden rules from a therapist to find bliss. Even when you are happy in a relationship, things might not necessarily be perfect. In fact, you need to understand that no relationship is perfect—and each one of them has their own ups and downs. 
While the ups are usually a joy to go through, the low phase of relationships often come with unwarranted advice that can do more harm than good. So what do you do? Well, listen to an expert, who understands and can guide you better. 
1. COMMUNICATION IS KEY
The importance of communication in a relationship cannot be emphasised enough. When you are with a person, communicating what you feel and think gets very important.

2. GIVE FEEDBACK, BUT IN A CONSTRUCTIVE WAY

You might feel that being straightforward is okay, but it’s not always right. “Instead of pointing out what is wrong, try and share what can be done in a more constructive way. It reduces the conflict between the both of you and increases the feeling of belongingness and mutuality,” she explains.

3. BE WILLING TO LISTEN

While communicating your thoughts is important, listening to what your partner has to say is equally necessary. Ms Chibber says: “Listening to your partner is very important and it is equally essential that you attempt to internalize what is being shared. This allows your partner to feel included in what is going on and communicate care and affection.”

4. DON’T BE DISMISSIVE TOWARDS YOUR PARTNER’S NEEDS

“Being dismissive towards what your partner requires increases the levels of discontent between you both. So instead, try to be a little flexible to accommodate what your partner may desire,” suggests Chibber.

5. BUILD A COLLABORATIVE PROCESS OF DISCUSSION AND ENGAGEMENT

When you are in a relationship, remember that you are a team and collaboration between you two is going to be helpful in creating an equal partnership. “Whatever happens it is the equal responsibility of both the persons. Keeping this in mind and allowing equal responsibility will ensure that there is equal ownership of the relationship,” she explains.

6. RESOLVE CONFLICTS AND DON’T BRUSH THEM AWAY

Ignoring a problem has never solved a problem, it has only aggravated the situation. So the next time when you think of brushing away problems remember how it can negatively impact the relationship.

“It is critical that you attempt to work through and resolve conflicts by looking at what happened and discussing what can be done to make things better,” 

7. CREATE GOOD MOMENTS

Build a healthy, happy relationship by focusing on the good moments more and make proactive, mutual efforts to move in a positive direction. These will allow both of you to feel a connection with each other even as difficulties and problems arise.

Regards,
Psychologist Harmanpreet K

Love

It’s been 9 years in relationship with him. We had so much of fights, arguments, misunderstandings etc but lots of love between us helps forget all those . In all these 9 years past three years are just amazing . We have come so much close to each other that even a small silence makes our day worse . He went on a small vacation kind of thing . From then situations between us changed a lot . Now he don’t even call me for a week and more . Whenever I call there is an explanation for sure . So I just stopped calling . I never spoke to any of my friends any time about our relationship things . We are a great couple for everyone all time. Now I don’t wanna discuss all these with them and make their trust on love break . I am feeling so lonely and frustrated.

Relationships

Feeling constantly at edge at work 
I am always anxious and can’t stop thinking about work 

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