Let's say you are someone longing for love but you know for sure that a relationship is not something for you because girls don't like you in a romantic way.

How would you
1) control the urge to seek love ?
2) prevent yourself from falling for a friend whom you really like ?

Yeah, they do want me. I don't have any problem in making them want me. They just don't want me in a romantic way.

In the past i had a really nice friend. I fell for her so bad. I loved her for almost 6-7 years and then i finally somehow managed to move on because she never felt the same way about me. She considered me as a very good friend. I sabotaged the friendship also.

 I've learnt that I'm not the type of guy any girl would want to be in love with. So, I decided to stay away from girls so that I won't fall for anyone.

Recently, as fate would have it, i got a close friend. I'm starting to think that I might be starting to have feelings for her. I know that she isn't interested in me. I just don't want to sabotage the friendship we have by falling for her.

That's an interesting insight. In my case, I'm sure it's the former.

Love

Why is that men cheat and think they will never be caught? 

3am Thoughts

Downpour disturbs the calmness of the night,
Thunderstorms signify the divine's wrath
Lightning strikes to give light in the dark;
All this trembling the human heart. / @iammaria

Poetry

Pyaar chaiye kisi ladki ka 

Books

Crying every night is normal?

I wonder what my mom will think if she knew I dont want to get married now. I know I'm really old now but still I dont like  if people around me push me to get married

Marriage

Mumbaikar....? 

Compassion

Share a sentence that motivates you? 

Motivation

I started developing feelings for my best friend. Even after knowing the fact that he is dating someone else. But i couldn't control how i feel. It went to the stage where i feel jealous of that girl he is dating. I never felt that before. I feel... feeling jealous instead of happy for your best friend is a little toxic or is it normal? I want to lose feelings for him and be happy for him. We used to talk everyday, now he doesn't even text or even answer my calls. When i aaked him if something was bothering him he is lying. Now he being my bestfriend and crush, and on top of that for some reason he avoiding me, is hurting me so so much. I cried two days consecutively. I even uninstalled insta so i dont have to be more hurt of he avoiding me. And the worst part is, he is the only person i talk to on a daily basis. Now i am just lonely, no one to talk to or tell about my day to. PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO NOT HURT MYSELF AND ACCEPT THESE THINGS CURRENTLY HAPPENING? 

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