Let's say you are someone longing for love but you know for sure that a relationship is not something for you because girls don't like you in a romantic way.

How would you
1) control the urge to seek love ?
2) prevent yourself from falling for a friend whom you really like ?

Yeah, they do want me. I don't have any problem in making them want me. They just don't want me in a romantic way.

In the past i had a really nice friend. I fell for her so bad. I loved her for almost 6-7 years and then i finally somehow managed to move on because she never felt the same way about me. She considered me as a very good friend. I sabotaged the friendship also.

 I've learnt that I'm not the type of guy any girl would want to be in love with. So, I decided to stay away from girls so that I won't fall for anyone.

Recently, as fate would have it, i got a close friend. I'm starting to think that I might be starting to have feelings for her. I know that she isn't interested in me. I just don't want to sabotage the friendship we have by falling for her.

That's an interesting insight. In my case, I'm sure it's the former.

Love

Well what would change if I was dead?

3am Thoughts

Connecting with people on here who have a strong grasp on english is so weird because they're using words like sanguine, literary gold, treatise, in actual text conversations while I'm over here just saying stuff like, "he was like whaaat" or "it's like wow".

Acquaintance

Drop you fav foods and recipe if possible 

Happy

Are you and your partner sleeping in different rooms or beds lately ??? 

Sleep divorce could be the answer.....

Seeek help now to navigate through this so the emotional connect & intimacy is restored.  

How's everyone doing?? 

I wanna share something really personal . it’s something that I can’t put it in words but I’ll try my best it’s just I’ve been fight with myself for way too long and suffering silently and it never really changes . It all happened because of my messed up lifestyle and losing self esteem during covid I had no confidence in me . So basically, I have an internet friend we have never met in real life . We started as friends but some how we became important in our regular routine. It’s like I couldn’t even sleep most nights if he wouldn’t be there on call . Just because he was always there I never could talk about other boys . Even if he was not my boyfriend he would shame me . At times I got weak and felt lonely as hell and decided to be his online gf since he was always there for me . There were times (in short) I’ve had mad anxiety I was treated like shit by my ex and at those times I used to have loads of health anxiety. He was the only person there in those days although I never met him I always treated him like a real person . He have shamed me every month since a year ( about to be ) . Now lately he started college and he is doing well without me and I haven’t been able to accept I keep crying spamming him for what ?? At the end he calls me a slut for my past and I never ever cheated on anyone . all I want is a good relationship and a good boyfriend I just want to block him and forget him and be in peace but again he was also there for me at difficult times I can’t be so selfish right ? I genuinely need help I think I’m ruining my youth !!

Anxiety

Hey so today I should just confess it ig!!
Well it's not like I knew but u know u kinda know but u just don't accept it....cz it make u think what kind of person are u!!
So I don't think so.....I'll ever be in love....like actual real truly madly in love
For me it's just attraction towards people...... that too on an extent where I too feel like is it love?? Do I really love that guy???
But tbh it's not a real love for me 
I just get attached to them soo much.......that the other person feel like I m in love with them but in reality it's just my attachment 
I won't say that person misinterpreted anything.....that's the way I m functioned......sometimes girls too feel am I bi........it's just my overcare towards them.....for my people nothing else
I should fix this....cz I'm at fault......it will break people's heart
It's not like I won't feel anything.....I will too...the same amt of pain.....oh okay maybe more than that....just like a feeling like I lost someone for forever just like a feeling of heartbroken.. ig it's high time to fix myself



Confusion

Just wanna share my one sided love story hahahahha, i think. Soo i first know him when we are in pair work for an organisation of an event, but we rarely talked as our jobscope didn’t really need us to discuss. I used to hate him because i thought he was an arrogant and unfriendly guy and he loved to work alone, so working in pairs with him sometimes gave me thought that he hated me, that is why he never really had any discussion with me. Then, suddenly we participated together in another organisation which again i need to work in pair with. However, this time we really need to discuss and sometimes even met a couple of times. I started to realised that he was not that bad, and our chat become more friendlier even it was all about work. And we even laughed together a few times, so i started to open my heart, he was not that bad, maybe he was just an introvert and minding his own business guy. I admitted that he indeed handsome even on the first time i know him, so i guess he has a lot of admirers, and i know thag i’m not his style. And now i kept telling and encouraging my self not to get high hopes and all these only for work. After this work done (which only few days left), you and him gonna be stranger again. The end. Please pray for my heart not be too hurt and smoothly and fast forgetting him. 


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