Lets call my bestfriend A . So A and i have known each other for a long time and we’re technically sisters. I trust her more than my life and always have been there for A . But A has let me down many times.A was not there for me when i needed her . A has ghosted me when A was in a relationship ,i feel like A just wants more friends but at the same time A doesn’t know that A will lose me in the process. I have always been left out or felt alone in my life and now A is doing the same thing to me. And it doesn’t matter to me cause i know im going to be just fine.but why do i feel like A has betrayed me. Why do i feel like im putting in too much . I tried to understand A pov and i do but how do i tell A to please make me a priority like i do for A.how do i tell A that i still exist.
Another person here. If you feel she isnt putting enough efforts and blames you for everything, i think its time you stop. Talk to her for one last time and explain what youve been feeling, if she doesnt listen or ignore or give half ass replies , you know what you got to do then
Simple suggestion : if she doesnt reciprocate your energy and efforts its time you limit yourself too.
Maybe not give up, but return her treatment to her. If respond positively good else it’s time to move on.
A doesn’t seem to understand your dedication in friendship. She isn’t bothered and I highly doubt she will reciprocate even if you ask her. Even when you claim u both are technically sisters, she has let you down multiple times and literally doesn’t share the same ideas of friendship you seem to have. Please remember people grow and move on. Don’t spend too much time worrying about this. Go out and make new friends.
