Lately, I have been feeling like a failure. I have had anxiety issues again, no itβs been days I am not able to breathe properly, people around me are doing so much in their lives, and here I am who canβt handle pressure, I have started hating myself again, this time it is not the looks, but worse than that that is what kind of person I am? I will be 21, what have I done in my life till now, I donβt even know how to do the household chores properly, I am still living with my parents, I feel as if I am a burden on them, sometimes I do feel like that I deserve nothing because I havenβt done anything. I have never felt so miserable in life as I am feeling today. I am not able to concernterate on anything.
Great things take time
Vinay @vinny_virus
To be honest, I have been gone through this, i can say that even worse of thisβ¦ but the only reason Iβm doing good today and living happily is because of i just keep going & going by believing in my self and giving a strong push throughout the journey.
Hope, you found this helpful. If is there anything required just connect with me will try me best.
Good morning π
Idk yrr
Like literally I think I am losing faith in myself
Let me remind you again, you are the only person to make yourself happy, sad or anything, choice is yours.
I suggest you to understand the situations you are going through, how worst it is, more deep you learn⦠If you keep going by positive approach, this all learning you will find very beneficial in future.
Try to share things with whom you trust most, whom you find a supportiveβ¦ Donβt be shy for thisβ¦ this is absolute very normalβ¦ even if a opposite person found a mutual importance in youβ¦ this will make bond more closer. :)
Everyone breaks my trustβ¦
I canβtβ¦
So sorry to hear that,
Can connect me and share. Happy to help. :)
Vinay @vinny_virus
Me
Anubhav @awesomeoggie
Hey, itβs alright to have these breakdown. But make sure to not affect your peace because of what others are achieving. Convert it into a positive approach and motivate yourself to do better, learn more.
If people around you are not so understanding then make other friends who motivate you towards your goal. And Household chores are not any skills those are basic things to do to survive.
Make sure you look above everything else and instead of thinking bad about yourself start doing things that make you confident.
Everything is literally so messed up
Home environment, financial conditions rn, hectic schedule, need a break, but canβt be independent, I just become harsh on myself when I purchase something. I am becoming too toxicβ¦
Anubhav @awesomeoggie
Totally get that.
Jb aas pass sahi nahi chal raha hota h, toh kuch bhi acha nahi lagta, every joy is a temporary ilaj that time. Think it as a phase itβll pass soon.
Aur ek baat as everyone says βyou can make yourself happyβ which isnβt true everytime for everyone. There are people who need more social dependency to keep theirs mood boosted. But when you search for something the possibility are you wonβt find it thenβ¦ Have patience whatβs meant to be yours will eventually come to you till then just keep yourself strong and emotionally less sensitive. π
Yes this too shall passβ¦
But it is affecting me academically as well
Anubhav @awesomeoggie
Hold yourself together.
If you were good at academics and now you facing trouble then you have to do more of mental exercises and try meditating. Else do your best and eventually youβll heal someday and everything will get better.
Yes maybe
Hope @cureplace
talk to some councillor if possible. Donβt take any random advise from here and there.
Idk bro
I am just having a burnout
Now&Me @nowandme
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