Last year I broke up with my bf Sanju whom I have been dated for 3years. After that i want to focused on study and join library where I met with One of my ex frnd whose name is abhishek and he became my good frnd.one day he proposed me and I couldn’t say him No. He knew everything about my past. Sanju is trying hard to keep the things normal and start a fresh friendship,I also keep missing him bt i know we have no future he is belonging from other cast nd my family is very conservative about casts and love marriage. Each and everyday my siblings
taunt me that i will run away and do married with a lower cast as I am a daughter of priest. That’s why I broke up with sanju .he loves me so much and also I do. But for my father’s prestige and honour I did that.but the things get complicated.
last week sanju’s father died.I try to talk to him but he scold me nd forbid to msg and call. He said that after death anyone shows sympathy and he don’t need it. I want to meet with him and again start a new friendship. I am feeling very guilty and sad. I told my present bf Abhishek that I worry about sanju.He get angry with me… both sanju and abhishek dont want to talk with me…Don’t know what to do. Is it right to patch up with him and broke up with Abhishek. I messed up the things. Feeling very blue and lonely. Don’t decide what to do.
Just be there for your friend. Your bf if mature enough would understand, or try to make him understand and you’ll that be there for you’ll be there for your bf too.
Today sanju text me nd said that he wants to be in relationship . He also said that i am his weakness and this time he don’t want to be weak. I reply to him to be just friend bt he deny…i don’t want to leave him alone as he is very sensitive…Abhishek also message me nd patch up with me and said that we should focus on our study.
Focus on your study and tell both your friend and your bf that you need to focus on studies.
You’ll always be there for both of them as friends. See how it works out. And if it is affecting your studies… stay out of the relationship complications