l experienced sexual assault by my cousin and my boyfriend. I don’t know how to deal with my emotions… I feel like I sometimes lose touch with my own identity… I feel like I should not have been born
Maybe u should share it with someone you trust
Hey! Calm down and give yourself a few minutes to breathe. I’m truly sorry to hear what you’re going through. It’s not easy, but I’m here to listen to anything you would like to share.
Fuck no this should not happen with any one I can help you with if you want to teach them a lesson let me know
What I do to them is not gonna change what I am going through currently. I want to feel better which I can’t seem to
They have to pay for what they did to you otherwise they will have courage to the same thing with some one else
What can I do?
You can do one this you can meditate you can stay away from such kind of people and you have to stop thing of what happen which can only happen when you confront them in front of everyone they should be punished for what they did and you can talk with me to or anyone who your comfortable with and move on
Talk with some one about in your family and get them in front of every on and they would be punished
I’m losing after read what you have said I can even kill some one for this kind of thing
Therapy is one thing but you should not forgive them they should be punished
Are you anywhere near from Maharashtra I would like to meet you and have them pay for what they did to you it’s not acceptable for me and not even by you
I confronted this to my mother but I can’t get him punished as it will make so many grudges into the family if we confronted it to them.
How can I punish them now?
Just tell me one thing seriously do you want them to see getting punished for what they did with you
You want them to be punished for what they did with you
Just say once will teach them a lesson that they would even ask their wife before doing it again
I want them to realise what they did to me. I am no God to punish them. Hopefully Karma will. What I want right now is to feel better. I want to feel what happiness was.
How?
I want them to respect every woman. How can this happen?
Leave that to me we don’t even have to tell them that they would realise on their own that they must have done something wrong that’s why This shit is happening with them that will be the time they will remember the things they did with you
That can happen can we talk other Things because this isn’t the right place to speak in open
Let’s connect and then get in details
Give me your id will talk there I can’t give mine because I’ve safe some thing which I wasn’t suppose to in public
Agar aapko punish karna hai tho batana jaldi nhi tho Muje apne dimag se ye nikalna padega every second I’m thinking I’m losing my mide
Let me know fast I’m waiting
There ought not to be blood or killing in this. I will handle it on my own
Who said anything about killing just a lesson which would have them respect for women
And why would I kill some one and go to jail
Shivay @shivay_
Heyy are you alright.
Did you talked about this to your mom or anyone else whom you trust.
I know how tough this is for you but you have to tell someone. Your cousin and your boyfriend have to know that there are consequences for their actions.
What my cousin did was long ago when I was a kid and it happened for years… I thought it would stop… I realised a long after that what I experienced was a sexual assault. It was too late to share it with someone. And what my bf did was a rape(not long ago) and I that too is something I have just realised… Now all these memories haunt me altogether… I don’t understand what to do… I can’t go to anyone… I can’t even afford therapy…
Connect we can talk I promise you’ll feel better
Shivay @shivay_
I’m really sorry that you have to go through all this alone.
I know things are tough actually they are worse. I won’t lie to you. These things hurts the most when it comes from family and the one who you love and trusted. Everything just becomes blank. We just can’t trust someone ever again.
Being a boy I’ll never be able to feel what you are going through, but as your friend and as a human i know what these things does… But you are way too stronger than you realise…
You are never alone. Talk to your friends, do things which makes you happy and make you at peace. Take one day at a time and try to be happy as much as you can… Start journalising so that you can know and feel what makes you happy.
Share everything what’s going on in your heart. Let your emotions flow. Share with your friends, or someone from here whom you trust or are comfortable with. As sharing relieves our hearts of the burden which we can carrying all alone.
You matter and you are important.
You are never alone. We all are here with you.
All the more power, love and peace to you ✨✨
I’m here with you. Always 🫂🫂
That’s generous of you! I am honestly losing my ability to trust people whoever they may be. I just know that I have a goal in life and I really really wish to god that I fulfill it. I want to help people and be a life saver. Only that can make me a happy person again.
Shivay @shivay_
I know how to feels when we wish to trust people but are so scared of the things which we have been through that it makes it impossible for us to trust anyone again.
You are such a kind and one of the most generous person I’ve came across in a long time
God is always there watching and protecting you. He will make sure that you’ll be happy and will be successful in the path you’ve chosen.
Helping others is what true compassion is. And you are just so selflessly trying to help others.
Thank you for that.
Thank you for being so awesome and amazingggggg. You truly are an inspiration.
And I do hope and pray that you can be happy and you again
Geetha R. @geetha_raman
Hi, while I understand the depth of what you have mentioned, It is brave of you to have come up to share this to find a solution for your mental health. I suggest you opt for therapy while I am hoping that you are doing okay.
What kind of therapy should I go for
Geetha R. @geetha_raman
Take up appointment for a session and we can talk through how to go ahead with the concerns.
Yogiraj @yogi3113
Don’t harm yourself for what they did to you they should be the best ne who should be punished
