Somak @somak
Jee boliye!
January mein mera rishta hogya tha final jaisa hi tha sab kuchโฆladka theek haiโฆbut uski muma govt job ke liye bolte rehte mere ko
Mein try krr rhi huโฆexam v dene abโฆmene ghar valo ko bola ki ap pucho roka vgera kab krna unhoneโฆ toh voh bole pehle hmari bdi beti hai uska hojae โฆtb tk isko padhao ap๐ meko lgta ab cancel hojaegaโฆvoh ladka apni mumy ki hi sunega๐ like krta hai meko but fir vโฆ
Somak @somak
Hmm. Yani apki hone wali Mom-in-Law chahte hain ki aap Govt. Job Karein?!? Aap kya chahti hain?
Mujhe kuch v smjh ni arha mein kya kruโฆgharwale koi aur rishta dekhne lg gyeโฆpta ni god aise kyu krtaโฆab mann itna heavy ho rkhaโฆkisi ke sath share krne ka mnn horha tha islite yaha aagai๐ญ
Mein toh bs us ladke ke sath rhna chahti ๐
Somak @somak
If thatโs the case, aapko lagta Hai ki woh ladka aapke liye sahi Hai?
Somak @somak
Have you talked it out with your fiance?
Meko voh theek lgaโฆ uske muma v theek lge but ab yeh sab burden pdhai pdhai โฆvoh sab govt job pe hainโฆisliye bolte rhte job ke liyeโฆstarting mein mene ghar walo ko kuch ni btaya โฆkal btaya n papa ne kaha ki ap 10 din mein bta dijiye roka kb krna hai
Somak @somak
You papa is right! Job should be YOUR choice, not theirs - you need to understand that my friend!
But uski uski mom bolti pehle hmari beti ka hojaeโฆfir krenge ladke kaโฆ hmari demand thi gov job vali ho ladki vgera vgeraโฆ jab chahiye govt job vali toh dkhne hi kyu aate yr๐
Somak @somak
As you said, you Papa has already asked for the roka date. If they delay it, you are really better off in moving on. I guess even your Papa would tell you the same thing!
Pta ni dkhne kyu aajate phir yeh logโฆ jab chahiye hi job valiโฆ mein v 15000 earn krletiโฆ n experience v bahut mere ko khudh ka clinic krskti huโฆbut smjhta ni yaha koiโฆhr koi sarkari job vali dhundte
Voh toh bolte jo family decide kregi uske acc. Krna sab
Somak @somak
Itโs really sad. But, sadly, you can control your actions, but not othersโ.
Hmm may be cancel hi haiโฆ๐ kyu aj usne baat hi ni kii mujhseโฆ mein apni family ko bol deti vahin krvanaโฆn yeh ladka hokr ni bolta โฆ๐ฅบ
Bahut bura lg rha โฆbs god kisi aur ke sath na kre eseโฆmeri family aur dkhne lg gye rishta ๐mjhe itna bura lg rha โฆrone ke ilava kuch ni kam meko aj kal
Somak @somak
Maybe heโs just like that! Whatever you decide to do, remember that you always need to value your own ambitions and desires over what others want you to do!
Somak @somak
Please donโt be sad and disheartened. Few things are always beyond our control - we just have to accept it, and move on!
Hmmโฆ bahut mushkil apne emotions ko roknaโฆkhudh ki beti ke sath koi krega ese tb smjh mein ayegi aise logo ko๐
Somak @somak
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Hmm u r right ๐ thnkuu apne time diya apnaโฆthnks alot somak โฆ thnks mjhe smjha apne n meri feelings ko v
Krdiya move on ab se ๐ pta ni kahan se aajate aise log zindgi khrab krneโฆ god v ni dkhte
Somak @somak
You are always welcome! Just give a shout out to me (or anyone over here) if you ever need to talk your heart out! ๐
Thnku๐now i feel relax
Somak @somak
All the Best My Friend! ๐
Thnku dearโฆ god bless uโฆbest of luck for ur futureโฆ i dnt hv frndsโฆbut i thnk u are best person n bst frnd
Somak @somak
Thank you for your wishes! ๐
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